What's really going on with homophobia?

[Delta4Embassy]

So often we hear straight guys expressing concern ove rbeing check out by a gay man. But seeing as how gay men admrie other gay men so much, unless you're pretty darn impressive you needn't worry. And if one of us do check you out, you should be honored and flattered.

Often times homophobic men will act out violently against gay men 'bashing.' Yet as studies have shown, bashing is a kind of touching a closetted homosexual may resort to in order to get to touch another gay man while not having to come to terms with his own repressed sexuality.

And of course, homophobic men are the most arroused by gay pornography in tests.

So what's really going on with homophobes? Irrational fear, repressed hidden homosexuality, or something even simpler? Could it be envy? Gay men are admittedly very promiscuous, when I lived in the SF bay area I'd take weekend trips to the city and cruise guys on Castro Street (Phoenix was my fav hangout, hear they closed it, sad.) And even drive up the coast to Guerenville which is in the redwoods area and a mini gay resort town. Had a boyfriend I'd stay with and we'd hit the clubs and bars at night, and lounge around the clothing-optional pools during the day (worst sunburn ever hehe.)

When gay guys wanna fool around, we do little more than stare meaningful or ask. There isn't the hinting around or being coy like you see with straight cruising. If two guys are horny, we take care of it simply and efficiently. And when we're done we do the usual things guy pals do even when straight. So could it possibly be homophobes are envious and jealous of our easy sex, and simplistic relationships? I think it is. Only a complete fool would be so worried about having somoene look admireingly at them that they then identify as homophobic.

When I see how frequently people who condemn my lifestyle bother involving themselves with it, I gotta figure it's that they wish straight sex and relationships were as streamlined as gay ones. Nothing else makes any sense.

 

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go suck a aids dick

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Case in point. If not closetted and gay yourself, why bother coming just for that? I have zero interest in shoe fetishes and consequently never speak about them, and certainly never condemn those with it. Because I have no interest, it doesn't come up (except when using it as an example as here.) But I do involve myself in things I actually care about. Because I'm actually involved with them.

So if not gay, why do you care what this thread's about? If not afraid of clowns, why would we go to a clowns fear thread? The only logical conclusion is you're gay, sinc eyou're certainly not giving off the liberal vibe.