What Is Rape In 2004?

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    Take Kobe out of it. The Kobe thread had turned in a weird way. Here's my take:

    Forcible rape: Anyone who uses superior strength to have 'their way.'

    Date rape: When a participant in any sex act has said, "No" and the other forces compliance. For it to be 'rape' there must be 'force'.

    Marital rape: When a partner forces the other in any act against his/her will. I've always had a problem with this. How does one force a guy? If that is impossible, then I guess marital rape is regular rape, which is very different than date rape.
     
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    sexual penetration without the individual's consent, obtained by force or threat of harm, or when the victim is incapable of giving consent.

    here's CA's law...your state may vary:

     
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    Darin, do you have a link?
     
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    I've always had mixed feelings about marital rape. True, some guys are animals and bully and threaten their wives to get their way. In cases like this, I think it is the law's duty to protect the wife. However, the issue of marital rape has been pushed by the NOW and radical feminists because they believe that marriage is nothing more than institutionalized rape. Many also believe that heterosexual intercourse is rape, period, even when it is consensual. And of course, the feminists are notorious for contriving phony rape statistics.

    I sometimes wonder how often this issue has been used against men by women and their attorneys in order to gain some concessions e.g. during a divorce.

    I don't want seem like I am trivializing rape, I realize that it is a serious matter and that its victims deserve the law's protection. But the entire issue has also been exploited by the feminists for political gain and by individuals who are seeking either monetary gain or retaliation.
     
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    So, what else is new?
     
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    www.google.com
     
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    I don't want to sound as if I'm being flip about a serious issue, but a certain degree of idiotic philosophy has crept into the national psyche regarding rape. As usual, the lunatic fringe has perverted the term to suit their politically correct agenda. A university professor espoused the view that if the female felt remorse about the sex act on THE FOLLOWING MORNING, then she had been raped. The same professor stated that the use of self-deprecating humor by a male constituted rape if it was used to entice a female. On another campus, a drunken coed entered the room of a male student and proceeded to help herself (the male student offered no objection). The next morning, remorseful and hung over, the female lodged a complaint. The male student was expelled.

    The whole thing has spiralled into a morass of lunacy. It's motive force is mostly idiots with no common sense and no concept of the real world.

    If I were still single, I believe that I would carry my own version of the Miranda rights advisory statement with me. It might go something like this:

    "You have the right to remain celibate.
    Should you give up the right to remain celibate,
    anything I have may be used on you.
    You have a right to foreplay,
    and to have sweet nothings whispered in your ear.
    You have no right to assume that
    any of the sweet nothings are actually true.
    You have the right to contraception
    or to have me wear a condom.
    You have the right to achieve at least one "Big O"
    Two to three are to be considered extra benefits.
    If you demand anything beyond three,
    that will be considered cruel and unusual.
    Do you understand these rights as I have explained them to you?"


    Release form

    I ______________________ , being of sound mind and at least reasonable body, grant ______________________ permission to boink my brains out. This license is granted for a one time use only and has been given without coercion or promise of reward.

    I understand that neither I nor _____________________ are obliged to call each other following consummation of this transaction and that ______________ is not obliged to send me flowers or to meet my parents.

    Signed this ______ day of ____________ 200_.

    (female signature)__________________________
    (male signature) ___________________________

    witness _____________________________
    witness _____________________________
    witness _____________________________



    I have reviewed the foregoing and found it to be a true and correct statement.


    ______________________ Notary public. My commission expires: ___________
     
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    Well said - but be warned...there are a few Militant Females on here who will read what you said, get pissed, and reply back to it as if you said something like "When a woman says 'no', she REALLY means 'yes'".
     
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    or theres the old,
    wanna do this ?
    wanna do this?
    wanna do this?
    wana do this ?
    wanna do this?
    romantic :cuckoo:
     
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    Lol - or there's my favorite definition of foreplay - thirty minutes of begging.

    Or redneck foreplay - "Get in the truck, honey"
     

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