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I have told my parents that I don't want him to have him no matter what.Don't count on it. I'm telling you, talk to your family and make a plan. Don't make it with him because he'll go back on it. Particularly when he figures out he's eligible for gov't subsidies the minute that child is in his care.
Your kid will end up in foster care.
Why in the world would you have to "pay off their useless fuck of a dad" if YOU have the kids?
(You don't have to answer if you don't want to.)
Because the law provides that unless you have an order stating otherwise (and good luck obtaining one) the surviving parent gets the kids.
It doesn't matter if you've had past restraining orders (I maintained one for 2 years, which is the max time allowed without a new incident) or if the surviving parent has never seen the kids or paid support. They get the kids.
The only way around that is to have some OTHER parent adopt the kids..and in order to do THAT you have to have the parent who is relinquishing his parental rights, permission.
I have the kids, I had an R.O. for two years, I have legal custody. But if I die, the courts award the kids to that dickwad automatically.
But we can buy him off. Though if I'm lucky, he'll die first.
Sounds like nothing better happen to you then.
What a shitty situation. Invite him over, and then have him get "accidentally" kicked in the head by a horse.
That is what I am trying to do.That's nice for you, but you need to put your child first.
That is what I am trying to do.That's nice for you, but you need to put your child first.
He can either see his dad once in awhile or not at all, either way it will effect him. If he sees me getting along with him and being nice to him it will be a lot better if he thinks that I hate him and didn't let him see him. My son will realize quickly who is dad really is plus I plan on discussing the situation with him when he is alittle older.
His father has vistation rights, now way will I neglect on my part of the deal and give him any wiggle room for the future. I also document everytime he misses a vistation.
But remember, don't contact him to make the arrangements. Let him contact you. And after he's missed two contacts, make it a little harder to be reachedd.