No it isn't...All it takes is to appeal to what your subject values more than the habit and the rest is duck soup.Oh, yeah?...I quit, too...Smoking & dipping at the same time.They need someone who has quit...who knows the struggles and knows the stages of what is upcoming: having done them themselves. They need a successful mentor. Addicts need former addicts to lead the way and to lean on.
And if they cannot afford it; they need a group that will help and support them for free.
If Reiki and hypnosis were all that then medical professionals would refer addicts to hypnosis ratherr than rehab.
But that would be malpractice
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You aiin't all that. Not even a bag o' chips.
Regards from Rosie
The only way I did it was by finding things I valued more than the nicotine buzz.
And just because the word "value" is being used here, it doesn't mean that those who help others to overcome their challenges for "free" don't get something out of it...If they didn't they wouldn't be doing what they do....That's how values work.
Oh, and rehab is a vastly overrated way by which "medical professionals" make insane amounts in referral fees.....And it fails no less than 2/3 of the time....Speaking of malpractice.
It is much harder to reach out and help another than to merely tend your own quit. You have to jealously guard your own sobriety when helping another achieve tbeir's. Not botheriing means less relapse risk.
The only person who deserves help is the one who is willing to take control over and responsibility for their own life...People claiming to be on the effect end of the world need not apply...I don't work with helpless victims.But you do it because others did for you and the person trying to quit deserves the help. Just like you deserved the help given.
That is what paying it forward is. No funds need to be exchanged; training is not necessary.
Regards from Rosie
You want to rationalize giving away something that others find valuable with hairy-fairy self-congratulating notions like "paying forward", that's your bag....But don't pretend that it makes you a better person than the for-hire counselor...All that does is make you a snob.