Spanking.... For..or..Against..?

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    No, not that kind of spanking.. I meant for the kids.. although I did try that once..didn't go over real well.. :eusa_eh:

    My parents had no problem delivering the punishment, if I bit someone (once) my mom bit me and asked how I liked it. Same thing with hair pulling ,kicking, scratching and all those other regular kid things. My father would deliver a sermon first which seemed to last an hour, (probably 5 minutes) then 3 spanks and your outta there. When it came to spanking my mother would just let lose, it was terrifying.

    My kids, when they were spankable age received only one, so they would at least have a story to tell. I just yelled at them once in a while and that did the trick. Their all great kids and adults.
     
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    If you think flame wars and rep wars are ugly, a word of advice: Don't start the mommy wars! :eek:
     
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    I see nothing wrong with a spanking at times.
     
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    I was spanked once, and I don't even recall why I was, just that I was.

    Once in a while, I don't see an issue with it. Just don't do it when you're angry, IMO.

    (LOL. The worst part of my spanking was that I was told it would happen at a certain time. The waiting was killer.)
     
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    I think only in extreme circumstances.. Otherwise they just get too used to it..
     
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    It didn't happen more than once or twice for me, but much worse than the thought of a spanking, was the chewing out. I'd rather my dad hit me than yell. The pain of the slap went away much quicker than the pain caused by the words.

    Now that he is gone, I would not even mind the yelling once in a while.

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    Even the wait wasn't so bad if it was a few hours. One could usually find something to do, even while grounded to their room.. It was that "click" of the door when dad got come that sent the heart racing, and the hands shaking :eek::scared1:
     
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    Like I said, my mother just let lose with the spankings, my father not so much. I recall testing out the Bitch word on my sister as a teenager. My father just slugged me for that, I was slack jaw for week. Between my mother making me bite soap and a good slug from Dad I still have a problem letting off with the foul language.
     
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    My mother was a slapper/puncher/kicker/gab whatever i can and throw it at you type of disciplinarian. I've never hit my daughter.
     
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