Kagom
Senior Member
I shrug, that's all I do. I don't think sexual orientation is a choice. That's a personal belief. I don't think being barren is a choice either (unless someone gets their tubes tied, etc.).GotZoom said:I think a lot of people unable to have children would have a problem with you comparing their being "barren" to your situation.
They did not have a choice..it just happened.
I know..I know..gay and lesbians don't have a choice either...many people feel that way.
But many do not.
You would choose a surrogate over adoption?
I would prefer a surrogate, honestly. I'd be more than willing to work out things with the mother (visitation, etc.) and there'd be a fair exposure to the opposite sex as well. I'd do adoption though with no problem. I have a lot of female friends that I could have the child spend time with to get that exposure. When it comes down to choosing, I'd take whichever was available to me.