yeah, without physical arousal..no marriage is all i said.i didnt disparage anythingi love lots of people that i dont want to have sex with.... or be married to.
and i wouldnt wanna marry everyone i love ...what, then, can seperate whom id marry from others i love?
ohhhh....sex prolly.
if it(sex) isnt compatable we arent talking marriage, we're talking strong friendship.
gotta check that out 1st before committing for life. itd be sillyness not to.
And if, God forbid, something happens to you or your spouse that ends the sex? Does that mean the marriage is over?
And seriously, for the life of me, I can't understand how other people are having sex that it has some mystical "compatibility" component. What is THAT all about? Do you find the person attractive or repulsive? If the answer is "attractive", then you've got your compatibility, and the rest is a matter of learning and growing together.
Meanwhile, that "strong friendship" you talk about so disparagingly is exactly what you SHOULD be working for in a long-term relationship.
Yes, you did. You may not have meant to, but that's what it comes down to anyway. You very clearly consider that relationship to be somehow less than the infatuation of physical arousal.
then...we are just friends...
which my SPOUse is ALSO my friend. but uh...we shag alot