is this child abuse?

[Againsheila]

first of all my mom isnt a saint.MY MOM JUST DIDNT CALL ME A BABY BUT TOLD ME I BELONG IN PAMPERS AGAIN look people heard her call me a baby in mcdonalds and tell me that she was going to get me diapers and a crib for what i did. i have witnessess dont you think that would help with soical servcies. its not fair it was only ketchup we threw on people and the people in front of us were old like in 60s they wouldnt even know it was on there clothes if my mom didnt say anything. its not fair you know. i dont want to sound like a whinny baby . i know what i did was wrong.she had to pay 45 bucks for the clothes i ruined but that was her choice. BUT NO OTHER MOM WOULD TELL ME THAT I SHOULD BE IN DIAPERS AND NEED A BOTTLE ONLY MINE DOES THAT. thats how un cool she is.. IT WAS ONLY MCDONALDS NO PLACE FANCY AND IT WAS KETCHUP. her telling everyone im a baby and belong in pampers and stuff was foul you know and a bunch of lies. no one got hurt it was only ketchup. cause of her people think i need pampers on me now. she needs to chill the out.

You ACTED like you belonged in Pampers. Worse, even, because I have a 3-year-old, and HE never throws his food or costs me money in repairing the damage he does to other people's property. Your mother told you the truth, apparently for the first time in your worthless, spoiled, overprivileged life, given the way you're acting here.

Now you understand me, and you understand me well, you self-centered little snot: Social Services has very finite funding. It exists to protect children who are in imminent risk of life and physical harm. Don't you even THINK about comparing your hurt little feelings to what truly abused children experience, and don't even THINK about wasting the time and money that rightfully belongs to them on your little tantrum. Not that I don't think a little time in foster care and a group home wouldn't go a long way toward opening your eyes to what an uncivilized little waste of space you currently are. If I was your mother and Social Services turned up on MY doorstep because you called them, I'd pack your bag for you.

dang, I can't rep you, I've given out too much rep...

 

[koshergrl]

Good point.

 

[Moonglow]

first of all my mom isnt a saint.MY MOM JUST DIDNT CALL ME A BABY BUT TOLD ME I BELONG IN PAMPERS AGAIN look people heard her call me a baby in mcdonalds and tell me that she was going to get me diapers and a crib for what i did. i have witnessess dont you think that would help with soical servcies. its not fair it was only ketchup we threw on people and the people in front of us were old like in 60s they wouldnt even know it was on there clothes if my mom didnt say anything. its not fair you know. i dont want to sound like a whinny baby . i know what i did was wrong.she had to pay 45 bucks for the clothes i ruined but that was her choice. BUT NO OTHER MOM WOULD TELL ME THAT I SHOULD BE IN DIAPERS AND NEED A BOTTLE ONLY MINE DOES THAT. thats how un cool she is.. IT WAS ONLY MCDONALDS NO PLACE FANCY AND IT WAS KETCHUP. her telling everyone im a baby and belong in pampers and stuff was foul you know and a bunch of lies. no one got hurt it was only ketchup. cause of her people think i need pampers on me now. she needs to chill the out.

You ACTED like you belonged in Pampers. Worse, even, because I have a 3-year-old, and HE never throws his food or costs me money in repairing the damage he does to other people's property. Your mother told you the truth, apparently for the first time in your worthless, spoiled, overprivileged life, given the way you're acting here.

Now you understand me, and you understand me well, you self-centered little snot: Social Services has very finite funding. It exists to protect children who are in imminent risk of life and physical harm. Don't you even THINK about comparing your hurt little feelings to what truly abused children experience, and don't even THINK about wasting the time and money that rightfully belongs to them on your little tantrum. Not that I don't think a little time in foster care and a group home wouldn't go a long way toward opening your eyes to what an uncivilized little waste of space you currently are. If I was your mother and Social Services turned up on MY doorstep because you called them, I'd pack your bag for you.

No shit! man if I had acted like that in the 60's, my ass would be a brite red.

 

[Cecilie1200]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

I was doing fine until you called your mother a "bitch." For THAT, your mouth should be washed out with soap.

Having said that, let's examine what went on here. First off, who started the fight at McDonald's - you or your brother? If it was your brother, and you were merely defending yourself, I can see your being upset when you were disciplined along with your brother. But stuff happens. Ever see a professional football game where the blue player hits the red player, the red player hits back and the red player gets kicked out of the game?

But regardless of who started the fight, you ask whether your mom's reaction amouts to child abuse. No, it does not. Not even close. I will give you that publically criticizing a child in front of strangers might not be the best way to go about disciplining the child, but that's about as far as I will go in that direction.

Things aren't as bad as all that. Cheer up. You have a mom who cares about you, believe it or not. Life goes on.

Look at the source. His mom obviously isn't very good at disciplining children, or she wouldn't have raised an illiterate brat with the manners of a chimpanzee.

My oldest son is 16, and would be mortified to even consider behaving this way in public. He's also man enough to take his punishments without sniveling about "child abuse".

 

[George Costanza]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

I was doing fine until you called your mother a "bitch." For THAT, your mouth should be washed out with soap.

Having said that, let's examine what went on here. First off, who started the fight at McDonald's - you or your brother? If it was your brother, and you were merely defending yourself, I can see your being upset when you were disciplined along with your brother. But stuff happens. Ever see a professional football game where the blue player hits the red player, the red player hits back and the red player gets kicked out of the game?

But regardless of who started the fight, you ask whether your mom's reaction amouts to child abuse. No, it does not. Not even close. I will give you that publically criticizing a child in front of strangers might not be the best way to go about disciplining the child, but that's about as far as I will go in that direction.

Things aren't as bad as all that. Cheer up. You have a mom who cares about you, believe it or not. Life goes on.

Look at the source. His mom obviously isn't very good at disciplining children, or she wouldn't have raised an illiterate brat with the manners of a chimpanzee.

My oldest son is 16, and would be mortified to even consider behaving this way in public. He's also man enough to take his punishments without sniveling about "child abuse".

Good points.

 

[George Costanza]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

Hi Emma, grab a Hamms and some Marlboros and fuck off. TIA.

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[Luddly Neddite]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

Hi Emma, grab a Hamms and some Marlboros and fuck off. TIA.

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Makes me wonder who pays CA girl's bills. She never has anything to say. Just a hit and run gutless insult. Always a yawner but nothing of substance.

Oh well, CG, go with your strengths.

 

[Politico]

Is the OP for real? Sounds like the problem is she hasn't smacked him.

 

[Againsheila]

 

[whitehall]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

The forum ain't the place to air your inbred family crisis. Try a therapist.

 

[sealadaigh]

ok here it is.. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst her for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box my i pod and cell i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a crib and stuff.telling me we made her look like a bad mother shes being a total bitch to me.

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public.For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair shes doing this. she took away my games and i cant go out now cause of that bitch. i want her to chill out and respect me.

apologise to your mom. that's a start. own up to what you've done.
you embarrassed her big time. offer to do some extra work around the house.
stay away from this board, and any message board designed for adults.
they are not places for kids.
ignore the vulgar and crude tough guys on this board. they're not.

 

[Noomi]

You ACTED like you belonged in Pampers. Worse, even, because I have a 3-year-old, and HE never throws his food or costs me money in repairing the damage he does to other people's property. Your mother told you the truth, apparently for the first time in your worthless, spoiled, overprivileged life, given the way you're acting here.

Now you understand me, and you understand me well, you self-centered little snot: Social Services has very finite funding. It exists to protect children who are in imminent risk of life and physical harm. Don't you even THINK about comparing your hurt little feelings to what truly abused children experience, and don't even THINK about wasting the time and money that rightfully belongs to them on your little tantrum. Not that I don't think a little time in foster care and a group home wouldn't go a long way toward opening your eyes to what an uncivilized little waste of space you currently are. If I was your mother and Social Services turned up on MY doorstep because you called them, I'd pack your bag for you.

You better watch out or he'll call Social Services on you next for his poor widdle feelings being hurt!