Mr. P
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OCA said:We as humans do not make a conscious choice to cavort with the opposite sex, its as natural as the sun rising in the east, we all are attracted to the opposite sex, every single one of us. In the case of homosexuality one makes the conscious choice to cavort with the same sex even knowing how wrong it is, and yes we hve the option of not acting upon an attraction to a same sex partner, its that cut and dried.
Thanks for being civil OCA.
I agree that we as humans do not make a conscious choice to cavort with the opposite sex. Neither
do we (most humans) make the conscious choice to cavort with the same sex.
This is exactly what I'm saying OCA, Most of us do not make a conscious choice at all, it's made for us,
it's nature and out of our control, we are what we are.
As far as every single one of us being attracted to the opposite sex goes...that simply isn't true. Can you show me something to back that claim. Some "widely accepted" data (facts) perhaps, other than that of religious opinion?
As for Homosexuals making a choice to be so...how can you say that? You say heterosexuals don't make
a choice it's natural, but Homosexuals do? That's not consistent OCA, we're all human.
Now as far as the option (read Choice) on not acting on attraction goes...Man...give me a break..when I
was single I'd chase anything in a skirt (almost). That was natural for "Me" I didn't have a choice.
I was fired up by the opposite sex! Never gave it a thought.
Then you say...."and yes we hve the option of not acting upon an attraction to a same sex partner, its that cut and dried". OCA, don't you see the contradiction here...If as you say... it's natural, how can you say
we have a choice?
Think about this...how much choice is there in being born male/female, handicapped, short/tall, smart/dumb etc..
People don't condemn others for being born malformed, mentality retarded etc. I know they used to do so...maybe we're at a point in history and views of homosexuality are changing. Why can't people look at being gay the same way they do any other "BORN WITH" abnormality instead of hate and condemnation?
And for all you Bible Thumpers out there...this question....WWJD?
Ps...for the record folks...I'm not gay and I respect true religious practitioners. Being in
the Bible belt I have no time for Thumpers. I don't approve of the gay lifestyle either,
I just don't mindlessly hate them for it.
That's not directed at you OCA.