Bob Blaylock
Diamond Member
- Banned
- #21
So someone Obese shouldnt be FULL OF LIFE when I call her?
I never date fat women.
Not a fan of flabby women.
There are much more important things to look for in a mate, than mere visual attractiveness.
Usually, when I post pictures of my wife anywhere, they are pictures where I have made a significant effort to take them to be flattering, to make her look as good as I can. Here is a rare, honest picture of my, wife, with no such efforts. I took this just now.
She has never been exactly supermodel material. She is overweight, and has been so as long as I have known her. If the only thing that I cared about was visual attractiveness, then I would have to admit that she's probably not someone I would have even considered dating.
But I am not that superficial, and never have been. She's a wonderful person, a wonderful human being, to the degree that even if I did consider visual attractiveness important, I probably would have married her anyway, because she has plenty of good attributes that far outweigh any visual deficiency.
May fbj and Blaster and any other incels that think as they do, wind up with women who initially are visually beautiful, but who have a rotten personalities, and who age badly. One thing I can say about my wife, as far as her visual appearance, is that she has aged very well; now in her fifties, she doesn't look any less attractive than she did in her twenties, when I met and married her. The kind of beauty that these fools seek is fleeting, and usually does not last as a woman ages. My wife's kind of beauty is much more enduring.