MassageGirl
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- Jul 10, 2007
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I do not think that most people have a problem with the woman who is quietly sitting trying to be discrete as possible as she feeds her child wherever she is...I think the women that people have issues with are the ones who are making no effort whatsoever to consider their surroundings or the people around them.
I really need you to look at what you just wrote. THIS is the problem. It is NOT the womans responsibility to keep other peoples eyes from fixating on her. It is her RESPONSIBILITY to feed her child. I see it isnt an issue with her if she is acting as prudish as possible, and dare I say, HIDING her feminine breasts from all those disgusting pigs that seem to have such a hige problem with any mouths except their own touching that areola of hers... Good grief.. Boobs pop out. Big friggin deal. People dont even make this big of a deal about it if a womans top or bottoms come off in the pool, or a guys shorts fall down. Get over it! People dont have to babysit YOU, so dont try to babysit THEM!!! The happy medium will happen when women stop LETTING MEN EXPLOIT THEM THIS WAY!!! You probably call your female friends "beeotches"... I bet you do. Think about that, the next time YOU have a problem with a woman using her natural anatomy to feed her infant. Maybe you ARE a mysoginist. I refuse to go that far, myself, but this is obviously all about YOU and YOUR distaste for a woman breastfeeding.. ((((unless of course she acts like she lives in the 1700s and covers up as prudishly and quietly as friggin possible))) Well! Wecome to 2007...
The woman at the pool I guarded at refused the locker room - first, it was not a bathroom but a full locker room with a room of couches and chairs, air-conditioned, clean and quiet. Second...she wasn't being discreet...but rather she was wearing her one-piece suit around her waist sitting poolside with both breasts exposed. I guess my question is - Why? Why was that neccessary...why couldn't she sit quietly on a pool chair out of view of others?
Because theyre just BREASTS. Do you SERIOUSLY have that big of a control issue? Yeah I get that both breasts were out. I GET that you dont like that.
Who did she hurt? Nobody! theyre just a part of her body. They happen top have glands in them, making them stick out a little further than a mans nipples would. Big whoop!!! You probably wouldnt have an issue with a woman wearing a teeny bikini, as long as her nipples were covered up, so tell me, what IS the VERY BIG DEAL about the other 1.5 inches of skin? Really!! What is it??? Its NOT a big deal. Most people have seen them, most people have been fed by them, and some people even feed other peoples babies with them. Big friggin deal...Sheesh...
I don't like the attitude of "I'm a mother, its a beautiful thing so I get to do whatever I want and people who say anything about it are assholes..." anymore than I dislike the attitude of "Feed your kid in the dirty bathroom because I'm offended by the slightest peek of flesh."
....except that YOU TOLD someone to take her kid into the grimy mildewy bathroom to have lunch JUST BECAUSE you dont want to look at those 2 extra inches OF flesh. Hypocrite!!!
It seems like common sense on both sides of the debate is the simplest solution.
Yeah.. I wish more people could see that the only difference between a womans breasts and a mans chest is simply the glands which are JUST internal... That would sure make for some reason and common sense...