PhobiaI just don't agree with it because it's wrong. Any phobia, according to Merriam, is fear based other than Homophobia. How do you explain that? Could be an oxymoron, or a made up term, because every other phobia is based in fear or anxiety.
That's false also:
phobia
: an extremely strong dislike or fear of someone or something"
A strong dislike qualifies as a phobia (according to Merriam-Webster) and need not be fear based, note the use of "OR" in the definition.
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Full Definition
:an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation
Phobia - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Homophobia doesn't apply to most people because it doesn't even appy to dislike, much less hatred, which you seem to believe.