thereisnospoon
Gold Member
Majority of which scientists?..Go ahead and post your data.Obviously you are going to ignore the overwhelming majority of scientists that will tell you sexual orientation is not a choice. So, that being the case, let's talk this out, Seawytch to Koshergrl, okay?
You want to insist that orientation is a choice (for what reason I don't know) so let's go with that for a sec...
Could you choose to have sex with a woman? And I'm not just talking about closing your eyes and being on the receiving end of the most mind blowing cunnilingus you've ever experienced, but giving it in return and caring about how well you were doing it?
And sex is just the fringe benefit...
Could you choose to be emotionally attracted to a woman? Could you choose to have your stomach flip flop when she smiled at you? Could you choose to want to melt when she gave you that certain look? Could you choose to want to spend the rest of your life with her as a partner in mind, body and soul? Could you choose to look at her every day and thank your lucky stars that she came into your life and hung a string of lights around your heart? Could you choose all that?
Kosher, you gonna answer my question about "choice"?
Being gay is a choice. Just as being straight is a choice. If one abstains from sex they are neither straight nor gay. So if a person who may be attracted to a member of the same gender does NOT act upon the attraction, no one would ever know about the attraction.