Why can't I get a question like this from a female coworker who is young and good looking?

[Muhammed]

Today this 55 year old female coworker asked me am I good in giving massages because she has a kink in her neck and would like me to get it out???? I was trying my best to change the conversation because I was grossed out and there was no way I was putting my fingers on her neck lol

I am just stunned she thought it was ok to ask me some dumb shit like that during work hours

Why a young female co-worker would not ask you?

Simple, they have better taste.

Why the older woman?

She might be desperate for attention and saw you as the last man that might be interested.

Also when I was in my 20's I would date women in their 30's and they taught me more than any woman that was my age at that time.

I understand the woman you described is in her 50's, and would repulse you now but when you get to that age you will discover why she was wanting your hands on her, and you will be her asking some poor innocent girl to rub your neck or other parts of your body while she vomits in the waste paper basket and files sexual harassment charges against you.

Also if you felt you were wrong then file a complaint and have HR deal with it.

Or maybe her neck was spasming.

I've had women come up behind me and knead my neck unasked. Totally creeps me out, they have no concept of personal space.

Equally dismaying is the coworker who stands with her boob touching you at huddle. Wtf, there's a whole freaking building...do you have to nudge me with your tit????

It's close body contact. In the business world it just means she likes you or considers you to be an ally, especially if it's side by side contact.

 

[koshergrl]

Today this 55 year old female coworker asked me am I good in giving massages because she has a kink in her neck and would like me to get it out???? I was trying my best to change the conversation because I was grossed out and there was no way I was putting my fingers on her neck lol

I am just stunned she thought it was ok to ask me some dumb shit like that during work hours

Why a young female co-worker would not ask you?

Simple, they have better taste.

Why the older woman?

She might be desperate for attention and saw you as the last man that might be interested.

Also when I was in my 20's I would date women in their 30's and they taught me more than any woman that was my age at that time.

I understand the woman you described is in her 50's, and would repulse you now but when you get to that age you will discover why she was wanting your hands on her, and you will be her asking some poor innocent girl to rub your neck or other parts of your body while she vomits in the waste paper basket and files sexual harassment charges against you.

Also if you felt you were wrong then file a complaint and have HR deal with it.

Or maybe her neck was spasming.

I've had women come up behind me and knead my neck unasked. Totally creeps me out, they have no concept of personal space.

Equally dismaying is the coworker who stands with her boob touching you at huddle. Wtf, there's a whole freaking building...do you have to nudge me with your tit????

It's close body contact. In the business world it just means she likes you or considers you to be an ally, especially if it's side by side contact.

I don't care freaking keep your tits out of my personal space.