Andrew_Jackson_FTW
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Having a core group of friends, especially for guys is a huge part of American society. It is a political thing. Only in the recent times have things like Donald Trump, Joe Biden, Black Lives Matter, LGBT things broken up friendships. This is a relatively new thing. It has happened in the past but today itās a more serious problem for sure.
I had four really close friends that Iāve known since high school really close with them for 15 years. But Around 2020 with the rise of the Black Lives Matter riots ā¦. those friendships were shaken up.
Iāve lost good friends from my high school years because they are far left wingers.
For example, when the 2020 BLM riots took place. A good friend of mine went to BLM rallies, he supported what they were saying. I was astonished at it completely shocked. We would get into arguments. I would tell him you canāt do this. Youāre of Italian heritage like me. You canāt turn your back on your ancestors and call them racist when they werenāt racist when they were honorable people. We would get into arguments. He would call me a racist. Itās the same friend who has been a āstay at home boyfriendā for about 10 years now. His girlfriend goes to work and makes all the money. Heās a disgrace. Heās also a drug user ⦠smoking weed using cocaine various things. if you look on his Facebook page, he has an LGBT flag. He is a different man compared to when I knew him in the high school years and my early 20s.
By the way, hereās the idea for this conversation
Throughout the podcast featuring Andrew Tate and Justin Waller, you get to hear the importance of having good friends around you. Strong minded people who care about honorable traditions. Itās really important for men to have friendships with strong minded men who are drug-free, who work out who respect traditions. If one has weak friends, one will be weak.
If one has strong minded, kind, compassionate, honorable friends, they will retain those values.
I had about four really close friends growing up through high school⦠I saw one of them about four weeks ago. Heās also a far left wing extremist. He doesnāt wanna listen to things.. heās unemployed. He smokes a ton of weed. He sits around selling things on eBay, making a fraction of what he made his old job.
The third friend I recently texted a few weeks ago. He supports abortion, infact, one of his girlfriends from 15 years ago or so actually had an abortion. Heās not really that religious. But he still retain some level of Dignity ā¦he works. He just had a child. Of the four close friends Iām talking about here. Heās the only one with a kid. He smokes weed quite a bit I think, sells weed. Of all four of my high school friends this is the one I might retain some level of a relationship with we will see.
And then my fourth friend would always call me when heās drunk. He seems to have various issues. He smokes a lot of weed. Who knows where this one will go⦠he lives in Florida and likes Ron DeSantis, which is interesting considering the amount of weed he smokes
And so I have myself as I have told many people on this board was in a terrible car accident about three years ago. I eventually came to the conclusion that I need to work out, be healthy. Be strong get off the weed. I am off weed work out as much as I can. I got all the reasons in the world to give up. But I donāt. And I could change who I am to try and go back to my old friends who support BLM, whi smoke dope , who support waving an LGBT flag and probably who even support waving the flag of Ukraine. Thereās no way Iām going to do that. Because I am who I am and Iām a man I canāt change that. I canāt become lesser of a man to fulfill the desires of far left wing extremists, even if they were my close friends in high school.
Btw I do have a few traditional old school friends that I play poker with. I have known these guys for 10 + years. But for the most part theyāre much older than me in their 70s including Vietnam veterans. Really great guys to hang out with. But other than Poker I donāt really see them much.
Iām sure many people here can relate their own stories of losing friends because of a difference over Donald Trump or something similar. And these people, my fellow posters many of you might be in a similar position where youāre trying to find new friends meet new acquaintances. And this is again important thing for a man if you wanna be able to find a woman, it helps to have good close, friends guy friends that is with like minded thoughts.
Iām happy to say that I recently I went back to the Islamic school I used to work at (I made a thread about this). I talked with a guy I recognized from my time working at the school. And I realize I can probably get something positive from this. I can start hanging out with this guy and more people from the mosque, who are about traditions, being strong, doing the right things opposing far left wing extremism. And they donāt even necessarily have to be Muslims. I realize that these types of guys theyāre black, theyāre Arab, some are white but they are all from the āold schoolā even though weāre in our 20s and 30s. And so with these types of men, we wonāt be sitting around smoking dope watching some dumb cartoon movie playing some dumb video gameā¦. will be sitting around like men discussing real topics how to make our lives better how to be stronger. Thatās it. Have a nice day folks
And please share your stories if you have them if you lost close friends due to political differences⦠and what youāre doing to find new friends with like-minded thoughts to make yourself a better person to make those around you better to make your community stronger.
I had four really close friends that Iāve known since high school really close with them for 15 years. But Around 2020 with the rise of the Black Lives Matter riots ā¦. those friendships were shaken up.
Iāve lost good friends from my high school years because they are far left wingers.
For example, when the 2020 BLM riots took place. A good friend of mine went to BLM rallies, he supported what they were saying. I was astonished at it completely shocked. We would get into arguments. I would tell him you canāt do this. Youāre of Italian heritage like me. You canāt turn your back on your ancestors and call them racist when they werenāt racist when they were honorable people. We would get into arguments. He would call me a racist. Itās the same friend who has been a āstay at home boyfriendā for about 10 years now. His girlfriend goes to work and makes all the money. Heās a disgrace. Heās also a drug user ⦠smoking weed using cocaine various things. if you look on his Facebook page, he has an LGBT flag. He is a different man compared to when I knew him in the high school years and my early 20s.
By the way, hereās the idea for this conversation
Throughout the podcast featuring Andrew Tate and Justin Waller, you get to hear the importance of having good friends around you. Strong minded people who care about honorable traditions. Itās really important for men to have friendships with strong minded men who are drug-free, who work out who respect traditions. If one has weak friends, one will be weak.
If one has strong minded, kind, compassionate, honorable friends, they will retain those values.
I had about four really close friends growing up through high school⦠I saw one of them about four weeks ago. Heās also a far left wing extremist. He doesnāt wanna listen to things.. heās unemployed. He smokes a ton of weed. He sits around selling things on eBay, making a fraction of what he made his old job.
The third friend I recently texted a few weeks ago. He supports abortion, infact, one of his girlfriends from 15 years ago or so actually had an abortion. Heās not really that religious. But he still retain some level of Dignity ā¦he works. He just had a child. Of the four close friends Iām talking about here. Heās the only one with a kid. He smokes weed quite a bit I think, sells weed. Of all four of my high school friends this is the one I might retain some level of a relationship with we will see.
And then my fourth friend would always call me when heās drunk. He seems to have various issues. He smokes a lot of weed. Who knows where this one will go⦠he lives in Florida and likes Ron DeSantis, which is interesting considering the amount of weed he smokes
And so I have myself as I have told many people on this board was in a terrible car accident about three years ago. I eventually came to the conclusion that I need to work out, be healthy. Be strong get off the weed. I am off weed work out as much as I can. I got all the reasons in the world to give up. But I donāt. And I could change who I am to try and go back to my old friends who support BLM, whi smoke dope , who support waving an LGBT flag and probably who even support waving the flag of Ukraine. Thereās no way Iām going to do that. Because I am who I am and Iām a man I canāt change that. I canāt become lesser of a man to fulfill the desires of far left wing extremists, even if they were my close friends in high school.
Btw I do have a few traditional old school friends that I play poker with. I have known these guys for 10 + years. But for the most part theyāre much older than me in their 70s including Vietnam veterans. Really great guys to hang out with. But other than Poker I donāt really see them much.
Iām sure many people here can relate their own stories of losing friends because of a difference over Donald Trump or something similar. And these people, my fellow posters many of you might be in a similar position where youāre trying to find new friends meet new acquaintances. And this is again important thing for a man if you wanna be able to find a woman, it helps to have good close, friends guy friends that is with like minded thoughts.
Iām happy to say that I recently I went back to the Islamic school I used to work at (I made a thread about this). I talked with a guy I recognized from my time working at the school. And I realize I can probably get something positive from this. I can start hanging out with this guy and more people from the mosque, who are about traditions, being strong, doing the right things opposing far left wing extremism. And they donāt even necessarily have to be Muslims. I realize that these types of guys theyāre black, theyāre Arab, some are white but they are all from the āold schoolā even though weāre in our 20s and 30s. And so with these types of men, we wonāt be sitting around smoking dope watching some dumb cartoon movie playing some dumb video gameā¦. will be sitting around like men discussing real topics how to make our lives better how to be stronger. Thatās it. Have a nice day folks
And please share your stories if you have them if you lost close friends due to political differences⦠and what youāre doing to find new friends with like-minded thoughts to make yourself a better person to make those around you better to make your community stronger.
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