1srelluc
Diamond Member
We've all seen it countless times over the last decade, when it really seems to have run wild to the point of lunacy.
You make a point based on the realistic probability of a decision or action and the retort is "well, it's possible that THIS could happen instead."
I used to think this was just people being deliberately obtuse, to avoid "losing" an argument. Now, I'm not so sure.
It appears that hazard recognition, risk assessment and intelligent weighing of data before making a decision is a foreign concept amongst a large chunk of our population.
Yesterday during a SNAP conversation I saw where a woman posted that she never thought she would end up a single mom, yet here she is with 5 kids by 3 different fathers.
A comment was made stating "birth control does exist you know..." and there were a bunch of angry "how dare you" replies to the effect of "birth control isn't 100% effective" "many women are unable to take hormonal birth control" and on and on....Just excuses to condone poor decision making.
Let's think about how ineffective birth control would have to be, in order for it to completely fail 5 times for the same woman.
Let's also think about how many women would have to be incompatible with this method for us to end up in the current situation with so many unplanned pregnancies.
Obviously these results are "possible". The real question is whether they are probable or plausible.
I don't know the reason but folks these days seem to have a real problem with the concepts of Possible, Plausible, and Probable.
You make a point based on the realistic probability of a decision or action and the retort is "well, it's possible that THIS could happen instead."
I used to think this was just people being deliberately obtuse, to avoid "losing" an argument. Now, I'm not so sure.
It appears that hazard recognition, risk assessment and intelligent weighing of data before making a decision is a foreign concept amongst a large chunk of our population.
Yesterday during a SNAP conversation I saw where a woman posted that she never thought she would end up a single mom, yet here she is with 5 kids by 3 different fathers.
A comment was made stating "birth control does exist you know..." and there were a bunch of angry "how dare you" replies to the effect of "birth control isn't 100% effective" "many women are unable to take hormonal birth control" and on and on....Just excuses to condone poor decision making.
Let's think about how ineffective birth control would have to be, in order for it to completely fail 5 times for the same woman.
Let's also think about how many women would have to be incompatible with this method for us to end up in the current situation with so many unplanned pregnancies.
Obviously these results are "possible". The real question is whether they are probable or plausible.
I don't know the reason but folks these days seem to have a real problem with the concepts of Possible, Plausible, and Probable.

