Mac1958
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This might be it: Narcissistic CollapseEither way this is NOT normal behavior
From the piece:
What causes narcissistic collapse?
People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can experience varying levels of self-esteem, which may fluctuate. Studies suggest that, despite outward expressions of arrogance and superiority, people with NPD have a deeply rooted sense of inadequacy and insecurity, which they may or may not be aware of.Typically, narcissistic traits develop either following abuse, as a defense mechanism and way of reducing feelings of worthlessness, or after receiving excessive praise as a child, thus creating an inflated ego. In both cases, the individual’s belief in their superiority relies heavily on the admiration and validation of others, known as ‘narcissistic supply’.
If this supply is diminished for any reason, the person with NPD experiences a decrease in their self-worth and self-esteem, which can lead to narcissistic collapse. This may occur due to:
- Being exposed for lying or manipulating
- Being criticized for their work or underachieving
- Not receiving the treatment or reaction that they believe they deserve
- Witnessing others receiving the special treatment or praise they believe they deserve
This reaction will vary depending on the individual. It may cause an outward and aggressive response to someone they believe has damaged their self-esteem. Alternatively, it might result in withdrawal and impaired functioning. In both instances, the individual will likely experience self-criticism and a fear of failure or inferiority.
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