The constant stream of whites talking on the internet but humbling themselves in public lets us know that there is always a large amount of white fear and inferiority complex driven behavior that grates on your nerves.
Assuming you're correct, how you react to that is more important. I have had people, perhaps unknowingly, shrink away or frown when they see me but when I get closer they smile and act nice. I know for a fact that this was because of race. I knew their discomfort or repulsion was because of their prejudiced assumptions or experiences with my race. I therefore knew their politeness was either cowardly or an act. And yes, it happens more often than most think and it grates.
But if I were to put a chip on my shoulder and let it influence negative assumptions and treatment of others who are not of my race, then I become them. And the problem gets bigger for everyone.