CurveLight Wrote:
Gem, you got any links to back up your "what we KNOW" part? Could you name a single Vet group that she was offered for help? That list of what we "know" is splotchy and frankly, a poor attempt to justify a position you cannot defend with the facts.
It obvious that you are quite passionate about this debate, Curve, but if you are going to ask for people to continue to debate as you did...you might not want to be quite as hostile to people who do...just a thought.
Of course I can provide links to what I wrote...I assumed that by page 20 into the debate I would be reinventing the wheel - especially since I wasn't saying anything that couldn't be found or gleaned from any of the previously posted links...but I will list the sources I have read at the end of the post for you.
Here's one article that stated that the military offered alternatives including Veteren's groups:
Army charges mom for refusing to leave infant
I do not have the list of groups...the military has stated that they will not drag the groups into this unless they want to name themselves. You can view that as evidence that there are no groups...but as I said in my original post, either the Army offered her these alternatives and she refused them...or the military is lying, and never offered her any alternatives other than foster care. It seems that YOU are the one who has chosen to believe one of the scenarios instead of the other. I provided both scenarios as plausible options, but stated that based upon my experience as a military spouse I find it hard to believe that the military, having dealt with situations like this before, would simply refuse to help this soldier out of hand.
Like the "her mother" backed out even though that meant her daughter going to prison. Well guess what? Since the military didn't charge here until TWO MONTHS after her deployment date how do you make that claim?
This is common sense, Curve. By refusing to show up for your deployment orders there are going to be consequences. Anyone with half a brain would be able to figure out that you could be charged with being AWOL, refusing to follow orders, etc. This soldier did not need to wait two months to know that she was going to be in trouble if she didn't show up...the fact that her superior officers tried to help her find alternatives so that she could deploy (or, if you do not believe that they did....the fact that they stated they would put her child in foster care so that she could deploy) demonstrates how important it was for her to follow orders and deploy...ergo how severe the consequences might be for NOT showing up and following orders.
With that in mind...both the soldier AND her mother knew that there could be, and most probably would be, severe consequences for disobeying these orders. The soldier knew that being charged with a crime that carries prison time might be one of them..and did it anyway...therefore...her mother, knowing that there would be serious consequences (possibly jail time) for refusing her grandson...did so anyway.
I know this case very well so you better come more prepared and stop trying to pass off speculation as fact. Some people have accused this Soldier of fabricating lies just to avoid deployment when they had absolutely nothing to justify those accusations on.
Again, as I said in my earlier thread...we all are speculating. You are speculating based on your interpretation of the facts. As am I, as are others. I, in looking at the facts that you and others have provided...feel that there are three possible scenarios...
1) The soldier heard "foster care" and ignored all other options offered by the Army.
2) The soldier did not want to deploy, so she and her mother conspired to get out of the military by using her lack of child care as an excuse.
3) The military, who were going to force a woman's child into foster care because they were so desperate to have this cook deploy, now feel that it might look bad if that came to light...so they are deliberately lying about offering her viable alternatives and are charging her with crimes to cover it up.
You seem to feel that Option 3 is most believable...that the military offered Spc. Hutchinson no support or options whatsoever. I, and others here...find that implausible...based upon our reading of the facts as they are currently known.
Yes, I am justified in pointing out that is at odds with the "Support Our Troops" mantra.
Sorry, but it is never justifiable to use a cliched and low smear because someone has the audacity to disagree with you...and its sad that you think it is...but in the end, it really has no bearing on this debate apart from lowering your credibility in it.
I also noticed you ignored the facts the military gave her an extension then reneged. Could you explain why they could wait two months to charge her but not give her an extension to find another caregiver?
Spc. Hutchinson admits that her two plans fell through...the military claims to have offered several others...how many plans does she get to refuse before she is simply guilty of refusing orders? How many options and how much poor planning on a soldier's part is the US military in time of war supposed to accept? Should the official military policy simply be, "Hey..take your time...its not like we're fighting a war or anything...mull over your options, we'll swing back around here next year and see if you're ready to go then...if not, no biggie."
She was supposed to have concrete plans to begin with - thats part of her job. They fell through. She supposedly claims to have come up with another plan that fell through. The military then offered her several other options which she refused. Good grief...seems like the evidence is demonstrating she had her fair share of options and then some.
Additionally, Hutchinson told reporters that after her mother and another option fell through the military told her that foster care was "the only option left." Yet the Army is claiming they offered numerous options and she refused them. It seems that either Spc. Hutchinson or the Army is lying.
Here's some of the articles I've read on the subject:
- Army mom faces charges
Army mom in trouble with military over involuntary leave back home in Oakland - San Jose Mercury News
US army charges single mom who refused deployment - Times LIVE
Mother charged over delayed military tour - UPI.com
t r u t h o u t | Army Files Charges Against Single Mother
Single mom from Oakland who refused deployment could face court-martial, prison - Inside Bay Area