Because when you really care about your people and if you believe that life are precise and you want to protect the pepole you love, you know that there are no "winners" in war.
Why say "surrebder" and describe non violent way as a failure? What the Hamas achieve to his pepole? What life he provide to them? They have your (and other) respect but thats it.
And yes there is a another way the Fatah in the West Bank, pepole who live there go to UNI, have jobs, live a "normal" everyday life. Of course there are problems but we try to solve them in non violent ways. Fatha dosent have your respect you (and other) may even contempt them but their pepole have a life, a futurer.
Are you saying that if Iran lands in Tel Aviv with a gunboat Israel should surrender in order to save lives. That they should just pack their bags and leave for the safety of their people.
There is a difference between Hamas and Fatah. When Israel tries to get into Gaza, Hamas meets them with bullets and grenades.
When Israel goes into the West Bank, Fatah rolls out the red carpet letting Israel bulldoze their people's homes, shoot at them, kidnap them or whatever Israel wants to do.
That is why the liars call Hamas terrorists.