It doesn't put me in any sort of bind. I ignore it. Because it doesn't affect me. And I don't spend hours of my day haunting social media and alt-right Internet sites searching for things that will confirm my bias.
Again, it's a dating app. You don't like it, swipe...wherever and move on. But people like you can't just move on. You need to be outraged by it. You need give it a "woke" label (a term that the right wing has weaponized).
It gives you something to rally around. Problem is, your rallies are getting smaller and smaller.