How many of you personally know someone who has been jailed for drug use?
Plus do any of you know recovered addicts?
Yes, I do to both. Actually, there is no such thing as a recovered drug addict, the same as their is no such thing as a recovered alcoholic. They are constantly recovering and must avoid the temptation to go back the source of their addiction.
It is the same as it is for alcholics for some. I know a former heroin addict very well. Sweet lady. She says she thanks God everyday that she was able to overcome. She's been clean for over twenty-five years. I known others from when I was younger that died or committed suicide before they ever got that chance.
Here in Iowa Meth is a big deal or has been in the past. I have not been around too many people here for the last five years.
One guy Rod grew up with has had his share of problems with it. In hearing him talk his life went to crap when his dad died. He was adopted and had issues that it took him years to overcome.
My dad was here one year helping me build a rock wash plant and the guy had been helping us from time to time, (heck of a mechanic, Rod was teaching him to operate the big equipment). His mom showed up at our door asking if we would help bail him out of jail. She was short five hundred dollars.
My policy had always been no bailouts for employees that got in such trouble when they did whatever knowing it was illegal. Dad like the guy and told me to put up the money. (He is a softy) I did it even though it was against my better judgment. Ended up the guy was on the local law enforcements shit list. You can imagine where that left me with local law enforcement. I was not popular here to begin with. I rented my houses to people here that evidently no one else would.... (Handicap parapeligic, mixed race couple, a sexually disoriented tranvestite moved in to one rental I had actually rented to another person. And so on)
The local law enforcement (sheriff) told me one day there was no hope for the guy. I retorted without thinking, there is hope for everyone even you.
The guy ended up spending several years in one of the facilities here that is somewhat a cross between the nuthouse and jail. Evidently one of the nuts got mad at him one day. It ended up he lost all his front teeth, (can't recall for sure but I think his jaw was also broken). He told me that was the turning point for him.
Well he needed some help when he got out of jail of course and he needed a car. We had bought a car for our son from him and our son no longer used it. So we sold him back the car on a payment basis he could afford. At this point his mom had sold her place so his dad's garage that he had been able to work on cars was gone. So Rod and I both told him he could use the garage and work on anything he needed while we were gone.
It was after he had taken pictures of law enforcement breaking into our house and such he was arrested again. He told me this time that he did not do anything. The guy had always been upfront about what he had done with Rod and I. So I would have to say from personally knowing the guy he was telling the truth this time around. But we were in no position at that point to do much of anything to help him. It would be over a year before he got out that time around. The local prosecutor asked me to bring in my file for my stolen dozer. She asked me if I knew anything about the guy at that point. After looking at my files and hearing about the photos and knowing the entire circumstance of the case he had been charged in she determine for herself the guy was not guilty.
It was a month or so later he was out again. By this time his mom had Alzheimers. He worked locally for several years and no problems. Yet that same local law enforcement was always there. Rod finally got the guy on with him on a construction project and the guy still works for that same company today. He is drug free. He never was a theif, vandel or anything else. The only one he ever truly did damage too was himself and the ones he loved.
I know a lot of people seem to want to judge these people pretty harshly without ever looking at why they are where they are or why they do what they do. I very much doubt that any of those who would wish these people with problems (who are in fact human) harm, are perfect yourselves.