Thoughts. Porn, good, bad or indifferent?

[KittenKoder]

Oh, and if you think BDSM is really just "a little hair pulling" then you REALLY have no idea what we are talking about.

Doesn't matter what it is, dear. It's still not abuse. You are like the Jesse Jackson of abuse. It's everywhere I tell you.

Really, this is not abuse?

Scratch that, I won't post it. Search for it on your own if you want.

 

[stekim]

I don't know. We have a Nanny filter at work and I cannot access the site. It must have a meta tag with sex in it. But if whatever was happening invloved two consenting adults who could walk away at anytime it is not abuse.

 

[catzmeow]

But if whatever was happening invloved two consenting adults who could walk away at anytime it is not abuse.

I do have to agree with this.

 

[KittenKoder]

But if whatever was happening invloved two consenting adults who could walk away at anytime it is not abuse.

I do have to agree with this.

I pointed out the difference between it being abuse and the time it's not. Stekim is trying to say it's "never" abuse, which is dishonest and denying not only the potential but the fact that it is often taken to abusive levels while the abused is unaware of such. He is basically saying that abused people ask for it in this instance, while I pointed out that they are not knowingly asking for it.

 

[stekim]

Stekim is trying to say it's "never" abuse, which is dishonest and denying not only the potential but the fact that it is often taken to abusive levels while the abused is unaware of such.

If you are conscious you cannot be abused without you knowing it.