No doubt. I mean I'll admit I didn't spank my kids, but I employed the fear of spanking and such. I also forced my boys to deal with shit on their own. I was really fond of giving them a list of chores and not holding their hands through the process at all. I made them figure it out, I made them correct their mistakes... someone somewhere said American's have "permission to fail"... (Prager U I think) I kind of held that theory when I raised my boys; let them fuck it up, then make them fix it so they learned from their mistakes and shit. I wouldn't exactly say I've taught them "conservative" views, but the foundation is... self worth through determined effort and reaped rewards - rather than meaningless platitudes that get zero results. "It is simply not enough to say 'you want it', you must follow through and actually do it."
Yawn.... the usual "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" ego of the far right.
It never gets old.
Actually it's not.
This was about kids learning to deal with taking "no" for an answer - something they /will/ have to learn to do in any job.
It's about giving kids the where-with-all they need to learn from their mistakes - another skill they will need if they want to be successful in life and surpass a minimum wage job.
It's about teaching them responsibility, not just for their decisions in life (ie mistakes) but also for making it right - again, another skill they need to surpass minimum wage jobs.
It's far more about getting kids ready for adulthood, where they are going to have to make intelligent and informed decisions and live with consequences of "bad" decisions, or at a minimum, be able to recover, both emotionally and financially, from setbacks, adversity, and failures. It is learning the drive to succeed, to do more than simply exist, to strive for more than simply bumping along in life. Achieved by believing in yourself and your abilities - even when you fail - "permission to fail" is not about being "right" all the time, it is about learning from those failures and doing it "better" next time around. Without learning these foundations of self reliance, confidence, and dealing with adversity, these kids basically just give up, they quit and ultimately the "failure" doesn't become a learning experience, with persistence pushing them past it, as it should.