No my argument is they both have to share.
I"m not sure why you think that is my premise. It isn't.
I think that is your premise because you indicated (paraphrased) that the Palestinians can't share while Israel has settlements on "their" land. We (collective "we" -- those who are actually trying to solve the problem) need to stop using this as an excuse and challenge others when they use it as an excuse not to solve the problem.
No, what I'm saying is that as long as Israeli's continue the building of settlements, it will be harder to form a contiguous state. The reality of the situation is not "can they or should they or will they share" - it's that the political will to dismantle any settlements is weak and insuring safety and security for Israeli citizens not on soveriegn Israeli territory is very problematic. The Israeli's who make up the "settler" movement represent the more extreme religious elements of Israeli society and they tend to believe all of biblical Israel is there's by right. They live in Jewish-only settlements and show little more desire to be open to sharing than the more extreme Palestinians. How do you deal with such people?
The ideal would be as you say - dual citizens, a strong civil society that can overcome years of war and hatred....but you have some ingrained attitudes to overcome in the process and very real security concerns.
It's not an "excuse" - it's presenting the reality and asking how do you work within that reality?
Now, having said that you and I have previously agreed that the Jewish people will probably have to be removed for their own safety.
But I can't remember, did we agree that there could be land swaps?
Absolutely land swaps, there is no way the larger settlements could be demolished, and people have now lived there for several generations. To force them out would be unfair.
Thank you. That was the more nuanced response I was hoping for. And again, we largely agree. It is my understanding that Israel has not permitted any new settlements in more than twenty years, but is building more housing units in existing settlements.
And I agree this creates some urgency for both sides to come up with a solution. Or some responsibility on the Israeli side to preserve the contiguity of Palestine.
Okay, so more agreement. What's next?
What would you see as realistic borders and landswaps for both sides? Jeruselum is what I think is the biggest difficulty.