Dante
"The Libido for the Ugly"
I often think of a few people who have gone away. Like others, I get blue, and I usually use the Blues as a cathartic tool. Great tool for dealing with being blue. I remember a story about the Matriarch, Rose Kennedy. I retell it in my own words: Rose was in conversation and it was mentioned that she knew something about time healing wounds. Rose replied that she didn't believe time healed wounds. She said that wounds scar over with scabs that can be torn open.
For me there are the times of melancholy, and the times of true sorrow. The kind of emotions that dig deep opening up old wounds, tearing away scabs. But I accept all experiences in life -- the good, the bad, and the ugly, for they all go together to inform ones life.