I stated my position in a maximalist manner (there is obviously some limit at which the freedom of the individual is not constrained by community standards). To address your rebuttal, the problem is that simply protecting the "freedom to live our lives according to our preferences" often presents a meaningless choice. If someone is dying from an easily treatable medical condition, but doesn't have the resources to afford going to the emergency room, that the government won't pay for her treatment because that would restrict "freedom to live our lives according to our preferences" doesn't mean very much to her.
Unconcerned with what it means to her. Sorry if that sounds "socially Darwinian", but if the government's only means of paying for her treatment is forceably taking my money to do it, at what point does what I feel become a consideration?
In absence of a hard moral standard (proof of God, proof of some purpose for our existence, none of which we have), nobody's morality can said to be correct. This is why the purpose of government, in my view, should simply be to protect everybody's freedom to act according to their -own- morals, free from the subjugation of anyone else's. The purpose of government should -not- be to decide that, because this patient is in a really bad position, the moral thing for me to do is pay for her procedure, and then force me to act according to that morality.
Hate to sound cold, because on a personal level I'm actually a very generous person. Regardless of my personal code, however, I DO NOT condone forcing people to be generous. Ever. My morals say it's better for that patient to die than for society to be subjugated to any degree on her behalf.
Don't like it? Show me proof that your morals are correct and mine are wrong.
I won't hold my breath.