Natural Citizen, I have a question: Is it true that many Americans do not lock their doors? that's what we see in Hollywood movies.
These days most people do lock their house doors in America. The crime is too high. For some reason, though, people don't always lock their car doors.
Just fifty years ago, though, a lot of people didn't always lock their house doors. Especially if they live in the rural areas. My grandparents never locked their doors. And as a boy, I don't recall that we locked our doors either. In both instances, though, we lived in the very rural country and very far from any cities.
I live in a VERY poor area, and I am sub-poverty, pretty much have the shittiest house in the neighborhood, save for the trailer-park a few blocks to the north.
Everyone knows everyone in the village. It probably has less than 10,000 folks in it. For the first couple years I was here, I locked my door religiously. Now, for short trips away, I sort of neglect to.
The other day, my kid needed to pick up something over at his best friends house, and I was in his car. So we are a across town, and he runs into their house for a few minutes and comes back.
I asked him if he got what he needed and he told me he couldn't find it?! It was then, I realized, neither his friend, nor his friend's parents were home (I stayed in the car waiting.)
Apparently I am not the only one in the village that leaves their door unlocked. . . .
It was weird knowing the America of my childhood was not completely gone and my kid was growing up in it. OTH, I really was sorta worried. I can't tell you how many times this kid has just left his wallet laying around the gym or the grass outside. He really IS naive about human nature. His mother and I, and his grandparents get on him all the time about how trusting he is. Last year he was complaining that there was a "thief" among the freshman class that entered the High-school from the Jr. High, and no one could just leave their valuables laying about anymore?! "oh no, someone went into his wallet and took ten dollars!"
So naive. I don't know what the hell he is going to do when he goes off to the city and a real college.
I will never understand folks that are enamored with cities and towns so big you don't know everyone. . .