You should keep in mind, Si Modo, when you're blithely assuming that because society winks at the practices of fertility clinics that must mean I do too, that I once worked in a fertility clinic.
When I was in my early twenties and just starting my first career in clerical and admin work, I got a really excellent job in a fertility clinic. Good pay, good benefits, pleasant work and environment; everything I could have wanted in a job, especially at that point in life.
The clinic took on a patient who'd been quite the busy woman in earlier years. Lots of partying with a wide variety of men and not much attention paid to birth control, such that she had had four abortions. I recall actually hearing her tell one of the techs, "Who wanted kids in the way?"
Now that she was a bit older, she had found a man with money to take care of her. The only catch was, he wanted children out of the deal, and Miss Spreadeagle 1990 had programmed her uterus into the ultimate hostile environment for fetuses: she kept spontaneously miscarrying in her second month.
The clinic, of course, had no problem whatsoever in helping this coldhearted slut produce a baby for convenience after killing so many for convenience that her reproductive system didn't work right any more. After all, the amount of money they were going to charge was QUITE healthy. I, on the other hand, decided that fertility clinics were perhaps not the best working environment for a person with any morals or conscience, and I quit.
So no, it's never a safe assumption that I approve of much of anything about how fertility clinics work. Nor do I sign on to the breathtakingly selfish, self-absorbed attitudes that support fetility clinics. Had I not been able to become pregnant on my own, I can assure you that it would never have crossed my mind to spend staggering sums of money on it, in the process throwing away dozens of living embryos, merely because I "had to have my own child". I would have adopted or in some other way devoted my time and attention to caring for children already in existence. I'm not conceited enough to believe my own personal DNA is that essential and holy.
So, that woman didn't deserve to have a baby.
Damn, please don't ever run for any elected office, nor become a judge.
Alright, now that I know that you cannot discuss research on stem cells without getting stuck here, that's fine.
One does not "deserve" to have a baby. They aren't property, and they aren't commodities. They're human beings. It was immoral for anyone to say, "Oh, you killed four children because they were inconvenient, but now you need to have one in order to keep your meal ticket? All righty, just give us $100,000." If you expect me to say any different, you're delusional.
And just so we're very clear on my opinion of fertility clinics, it is sick and immoral for ANYONE to treat living human beings as commodities, or to aid others in treating them as though they're accessories.
Insofar as anyone can "deserve" to create and become responsible for an innocent, helpless human being, no. She didn't deserve to have a baby, any more than that woman who drowned her children in the bathtub "deserved" to have any more children.
All right, now that I know you can't deal with any worldview other than your own, that's fine. Well, actually, it's not.