You'll find athiest want the same things you want. Minus any guilt for watching porn. But you dont have to believe in god to want justice fairness love or people to behave. Do kids need Santa to learn naughty and nice?
We have a secular society and no one credible is even considering inverting the bible into our laws like Muslims do in Arab nations. Why not? Because belief in god is not a requirement for being good or happy.
Yes we can abort without worrying about hell.
Worrying about being sent to a torturous hell must be a Protestant or atheist thing. Jews do not believe in hell, and the majority of Christians believe hell to be a choice of not having to live eternally in the presence of God, not a place of torture.
Note I did not say God is necessary in order for people to want justice, marriage, love, or for people to behave. I asked about the ideal. What is the ideal justice; the ideal marriage; the ideal love; the ideal behavior?
I asked whether it is your experience that atheists strive for the ideal, or are they more accepting of whatever justice is obtained, whatever marriage is, whatever consideration we show our fellowman, that any nominal behavior is all good enough.