Everyone did not. And people like Hayden decided to work for change within the straight world.
He developed a brand and name recognition, which led to marrying into money. Big deal, so he 'changed his ways', after getting where he wanted to be. Most of them did, that got 'famous', though one of the bigger ones committed suicide, Hoffman.
And remember, it is conservatives who want things to always stay the same. Some people move on with the times.
So why are so many 'progressives' still stuck in the '60's almost 50 years later, peddling the same memes and repeating the same old Soviet Cold War propaganda, you think? ... They haven't 'moved on' at all, in fact.
I'm not a conservative, so you'll have to play that particular snivel with somebody else.