I come from a strongly military family and members of my family have fought in every war and skirmish that this country has ever had. That includes Afghanistan and Iraq where I have friends and family serving now. Many of those from WWII on at least have been officers. I am quite aware of the dedication to duty and the intense professionalism that exists.
Heterosexual is natural in that it occurs in nature.
Homosexuality is natural in that it occurs in nature.
And both heterosexual and homosexual people are thoroughly sexual creatures. That is a huge component of human nature. And it manifests itself in the military as much as it does anywhere else.
I just generally don't see any profit in unnecessarily creating situations and relationships that are unnatural in the grand scheme of things and it is definitely unnatural--against human nature--to expect men and women to not experience sexual feelings when they are constantly placed in situations that usually generate such feelings.
that happens today in our armed forces where men and women serve deployed in the same unit. The armed forces deals with it. just like they will deal with gays being able to acknowledge their sexuality. Two guys caugtht having sex in a foxhole will still get punished today the same as a guy and gal having sex in a foxhole.... the reality is... if you're in a FOXHOLE, sex is not really at the top of your priority list!
I know all that. But it wasn't foxholes I had in mind. It was more bunking together in close proximity, showering together, spending long lonely stretches together on watch and such. And yes people are able to keep their natural instincts and urges in check, and even 18, 19, and 20 year old can demonstrate high professionalism.
But nobody much expects folks in civilian life to forego doing what comes naturally in such circumstances.
I said I would regret posting in this thread because I knew there would be those who think 18, 19, 20 yr olds won't get it on if they're told not to even if there is mutual attraction and opportunity.
So I'll just leave it at that. I just don't see much profit in putting them into such unrealistic situations emotionally when they already have so much to deal with.
And I could be wrong.