ed.bryant
Rookie
Hi, everyone
I wanna to talk about American rights and selectivity in their respect. I know that everyone's tired of this issue as the stuff of legend. Here is another one.
I emigrated from Poland to the USA several years ago. This happened because my cousin left me his small business here. But I faced many bureaucratic and social complications. At that time an online-consultant helped me. Despite I hadn't ever met him, he was remaining my only friend in the United States for a long time. My consultant occurred to be a social worker living in rather poor small town. A white, cisgender man, he raised alone an underaged daughter after his wife passed. Even this sounds like coming out.
I only found out yesterday that my online-friend committed suicide. His former mother-in-law wrote me. His neighbor drove him to suicide. By strange quirk of fate, this black young woman settled nearby together with her girlfriend. First they just lived a noisy life with big blowouts and crowded parties. The neighbor's brother was a policeman, so they had no problems with law. My friend had no choice but to tolerate this behavior and seek for a quieter place to live at. It was rather hard. There are too few people wishing to buy a house somewhere backwoods. The fewer would pay for it a sum enough for the down payment on a better place.
Besides, the neighbor started bothering his daughter pitting her against her father and inspiring a sense of guilt for her 'slaver ancestors.' As a result, she set on my friend his peers from the HHS because he allegedly didn't create the necessary conditions for raising his daughter as a strong woman fully aware of her rights. At the same time, it turned out that almost entire of front yard and a part of my friend's house belonged to this lady, for he allegedly owed her a lot of money during the latter home renovation. Speaking of which, the house was barely renovated for its residents had been seeking for the opportunity to leave it. Meanwhile, the daughter repeated to DCFS everything the neighbor girl taught her.
It was enough. This scandalous lady turned to have some decent connections among lawyers and various human rights activists. One of them, another black one was working at Joe Biden's Ohio campaign office. He certainly is a brilliant lawyer. My friend lost in all courts and appeals. After that, he sent his daughter to her grandmother and shot himself in a living-room. His former mother-in-law found him. She came to find out, what's going on and why he doesn't answer her calls. This elderly lady kindly answered my latter email and told me about that tragedy.
I'm still shocked. I believed America is a stronghold of democracy and human rights before I came here. But actually, everything is turned upside down. A man can be deprived his family, can be thrown out on the street, can be convicted on fabricated charges, and driven to suicide. The only cause for all of those vile things might be his personal dislike of a color of skin, sexual identity, or religion. And yet, a white American's rights are respected much more negligent, than rights of people of color. The last thing I experienced myself while doing inheritance paperwork and other bureaucracy moments. Indeed, on several occasions I was rejected, meanwhile another emigrant was met half-way just because of his skin color.
Regret to write this, but America is not the land of opportunity. And it never was. Neither Dems, not Joe Biden himself can help. It is necessary to pay more attention to inner problems. However, no high and mighty are interested in that. Today I've read that white men in the USA commit suicide two-and-a-half times as often as black men, by the way. This phenomenon has been called deaths of despair. Just think about it while expressing your sympathies to the BLM next time.
I wanna to talk about American rights and selectivity in their respect. I know that everyone's tired of this issue as the stuff of legend. Here is another one.
I emigrated from Poland to the USA several years ago. This happened because my cousin left me his small business here. But I faced many bureaucratic and social complications. At that time an online-consultant helped me. Despite I hadn't ever met him, he was remaining my only friend in the United States for a long time. My consultant occurred to be a social worker living in rather poor small town. A white, cisgender man, he raised alone an underaged daughter after his wife passed. Even this sounds like coming out.
I only found out yesterday that my online-friend committed suicide. His former mother-in-law wrote me. His neighbor drove him to suicide. By strange quirk of fate, this black young woman settled nearby together with her girlfriend. First they just lived a noisy life with big blowouts and crowded parties. The neighbor's brother was a policeman, so they had no problems with law. My friend had no choice but to tolerate this behavior and seek for a quieter place to live at. It was rather hard. There are too few people wishing to buy a house somewhere backwoods. The fewer would pay for it a sum enough for the down payment on a better place.
Besides, the neighbor started bothering his daughter pitting her against her father and inspiring a sense of guilt for her 'slaver ancestors.' As a result, she set on my friend his peers from the HHS because he allegedly didn't create the necessary conditions for raising his daughter as a strong woman fully aware of her rights. At the same time, it turned out that almost entire of front yard and a part of my friend's house belonged to this lady, for he allegedly owed her a lot of money during the latter home renovation. Speaking of which, the house was barely renovated for its residents had been seeking for the opportunity to leave it. Meanwhile, the daughter repeated to DCFS everything the neighbor girl taught her.
It was enough. This scandalous lady turned to have some decent connections among lawyers and various human rights activists. One of them, another black one was working at Joe Biden's Ohio campaign office. He certainly is a brilliant lawyer. My friend lost in all courts and appeals. After that, he sent his daughter to her grandmother and shot himself in a living-room. His former mother-in-law found him. She came to find out, what's going on and why he doesn't answer her calls. This elderly lady kindly answered my latter email and told me about that tragedy.
I'm still shocked. I believed America is a stronghold of democracy and human rights before I came here. But actually, everything is turned upside down. A man can be deprived his family, can be thrown out on the street, can be convicted on fabricated charges, and driven to suicide. The only cause for all of those vile things might be his personal dislike of a color of skin, sexual identity, or religion. And yet, a white American's rights are respected much more negligent, than rights of people of color. The last thing I experienced myself while doing inheritance paperwork and other bureaucracy moments. Indeed, on several occasions I was rejected, meanwhile another emigrant was met half-way just because of his skin color.
Regret to write this, but America is not the land of opportunity. And it never was. Neither Dems, not Joe Biden himself can help. It is necessary to pay more attention to inner problems. However, no high and mighty are interested in that. Today I've read that white men in the USA commit suicide two-and-a-half times as often as black men, by the way. This phenomenon has been called deaths of despair. Just think about it while expressing your sympathies to the BLM next time.