And I have NEVER heard a woman say "I wish so and so hadn't been born."
But I sure as hell have heard them say "I wish I hadn't had an abortion."
The whole "the child is better off dead" argument is as flat as rainwater, as well, btw. There's no evidence that legalizing abortion has in any way decreased the incidence of child abuse/neglect or even poverty. The kids who are poor were born to mothers who WANTED them, dumbass.
You know what? So what. NO matter how careful people are, accidents can happen. I had a pregnancy scare with my boyfriend last year. We'd been dating for about 6 months, and I missed a period.
Fortunately, I wasn't pregnant, but in that week, I thought about whether or not I could have a baby. At this point in my life, I couldn't. I'm 43, with two kids, and not married. I cannot afford the expense, the time off work, and I don't want to take time away from my kids to raise another baby.
I know for a fact that I'd have aborted.
And you know what? That's well within my rights. I'm more than an egg-incubator. A fetus at 4 weeks is not a human infant. They are not at all the same. Sure that fetus contains the POTENTIAL to become a human infant, but it's not there. It's a tiny cluster of cells.
I miscarried when I was 26. I caught the baby in my hand in the bathroom, after hours of agony. I was 12 weeks pregnant.
I've delivered 2 healthy full term babies.
They are not remotely the same.
Being pro-abortion during the first trimester is not the same as being pro-abortion for a late term abortion.
And, I get tired of your inflammatory, judgemental rhetoric, Allie.
You're a self-righteous jerk.