The OP doesn't get it. These right wing republicans do not want see race relations improve. They are the problem.
“There is another class of colored people who make a business of keeping the troubles, the wrongs, and the hardships of the Negro race before the public. ... Some of these people do not want the Negro to lose his grievances, because they do not want to lose their jobs ... There is a certain class of race-problem solvers who don’t want the patient to get well.”
Booker T. Washington
Now understand the ignorance of this thinking. These were comments made in the Jim Crow south by a black man telling whites there are blacks who enjoy being treated as second class citizens.
Some say that Booker T. Washington is the father of black conservatism. I’m not all that sure we can say that; however his ideas and what black conservatives say are close. Washington wanted blacks to learn trades and not fight whites and that by our learning these trades and working hard blacks would gain the respect of whites and things would change. Washington’s philosophy created more craftsmen and tradesmen which is a positive. But did it work?
No. We did not get the right to vote, equal rights or equal opportunities because of the Booker T Washington plan. We had more machinists and bricklayers who could not even become members of trade unions. We did not get civil rights by doing what Booker T wanted done. This is what black conservatives need to understand. Appeasing and going along with the whites who are racists hoping that changes them DOES NOT WORK! There are decades of examples to prove this. I say this in the 21st century long after the days of Washington. I want to be fair to this man, because unlike todays conservatives he wasn’t ignoring racism, nor was he denigrating blacks at every instance he could in front of white audiences. Actually, for his day, and for him living in the south, his idea may very well have been the most pragmatic. Unfortunately it did not work. Perhaps no plan by anyone black in any effort to stop whites from what they were doing at that time would have.
Washington’s plan did not work for one major reason. Ta-Nehisi Coates points this out in his 2009 article, “The Tragedy And Betrayal Of Booker T. Washington.”
“The dominant logic of the post-Reconstruction era held that the real problem wasn't white racists, but carpetbaggers and meddlers from up North who'd elevated illiterate blacks above their station. The white Southerner, presumably, had no existential objection to blacks, they just didn't want to live next door to them or have an illiterate and morally degenerate population electing their politicians. To this Washington, and much of black America, said Fine. Cease fire. You let us be, we'll let you be.”
His idea or plan did not work out because he dismissed one essential truth. Southern Whites hated blacks. They did not want blacks near them, close to them, within any proximity of them. They did not want blacks succeeding, all they wanted was for blacks to get out of the way and return to slavery. He paid no attention to how much southern whites did not like the fact blacks were free. Like todays black conservative, Washington looked past the rhetoric whites kept on speaking, the laws and polices they passed and thought that perhaps if we accept things that eventually we will gain our respect. Eventually if we do it this way, the racism will end. That if we just leave them alone and do what we do, if we just ignore the racism they won’t bother us and we won’t bother them.
This is the logic being used by the OP as he talks about how both sides need to do something.
So what happened to Washington? He made the Atlanta Compromise.
"The Atlanta compromise was an agreement struck in 1895 between Booker T. Washington, president of the Tuskegee Institute, other African-American leaders, and Southern white leaders.[1][2] It was first supported, and later opposed by W. E. B. Du Bois and other African-American leaders.
The agreement was that Southern blacks would work and submit to white political rule, while Southern whites guaranteed that blacks would receive basic education and due process in law.[3][4] Blacks would not focus their demands on equality, integration, or justice, and Northern whites would fund black educational charities."
Atlanta compromise - Wikipedia
There ya go, an agreement that accepts both sides have a problem so we agree to terms.
"Essential elements of the agreement were that blacks would not ask for the right to vote, they would not retaliate against racist behavior, they would tolerate segregation and discrimination, that they would receive free basic education, education would be limited to vocational or industrial training (for instance as teachers or nurses), liberal arts education would be prohibited (for instance, college education in the classics, humanities, art, or literature."
And the result?
"In retrospect, this was a grievous error. In point of fact, whites
actually did have an existential objection to black people. Their beef wasn’t that illiterates and moral degenerates might get too much power. Quite the opposite. Their beef was that blacks would prove to not be illiterates and moral degenerates, and thus fully able to compete with them. To see this point illustrated, one need only look at the history of race riots in the South. When white mobs set upon black communities they didn’t simply burn down the “morally degenerate” portions—they attacked the South’s burgeoning
black middle
and working class and its institutions. They went for the churches, the schools and the businesses."
"You must understand the chilling effect this had to have on black people. To actually concede to all the racist propaganda out there, and then to be rewarded by hooligans burning down your community must have been psychologically devastating."
The Tragedy And Betrayal Of Booker T. Washington
But hey if we just fix both sides...….. Don't pretend this can't happen now and don't listen to bunch of white people with an 1800's mindset on race tell you how this is not the past.