Ya need to separate culture from religion, then see the impact of cultural change on individual behavior ... over time.
Not all members of a culture are religious and practice shitty behavior.
When sexual desires are suppressed, as they are in Muslim culture, then rape is attractive in fantasy especially. Once individuals move to more culture-free countries, their behaviors will adapt, in time.
Openly expressing romantic and sexual
desires is suppressed in some cultures. So in these cultures the only women who are liberated - in a manner of speaking - are prostitutes. Now, it is widely known that sexual freedom and expression of affection is common in the West. This causes great confusion for the men of these suppressed cultures, and tall stories are told about western women because of it. It is so bad that anyone of them coming to the west can't possibly tell the lads back home that they have 'failed' to bed the lose women of the west. The lies these guys tell stoke the fires of ignorance even more. The greatest misunderstanding seems to stem from how one goes about getting our women to bed in the first place. They imagine all you need to do is just 'take them'. Somewhere in their confusion they just can't imagine that a 'loose woman' can chose for herself. The simple fact is that you can have sex with a woman in the west but only if she likes you. The suppressed never got the memo and they are twisting themselves into pretzels with frustration.
I was studying at the university in Freiburg im breisgau back in the mid 70's. My best friend and fellow student was from Iran. This was just before the Islamic revolution in his country. One year we went to a Fasching party together. I lost sight of him in the crowded house. When I finally found him again he was leaning against the wall, his feet spread apart and stretched back. The palms of both his hands were spread and pressed firmly against the wall - with a young and frightened girl between them. His nose was just centimetres away from hers. She clearly wanted to get away from him but she didn't know how, short of screaming or punching him. I managed to get him away from her and took him aside for a little 'talk'. I told him that he was going about it all wrong. He assured me that he knew what he was doing, and this is what he told me,
"Any girl I succeed with I will know she is a tramp so I'll **** her and then I'll throw the slut away. Any girl that won't let me **** her ....... that's the one I'll keep .... because she's a good woman." I really did want to ask him what made him think (with his
'technique') that any girl would want him to keep her, but I could see that logic would go WAY over his head.