jamie, (and i must be talking to myself again, since i must be your sockpuppet, although i am at least a foot taller than you and we have very different posting styles with certain word usages, as all writers exhibit. in another thread i had joked with another poster that he/she should try to argue that interior dialogue could be proven to be from "others". i have toyed with making that argument myself, but of course, some twit would run around yapping at my heels for days to source my own thoughts and arguments. Lol!) it is a sad but true thing that there are always going to be certain ppl who cannot rise to others abilities, and so must strive to pull them down. these ppl are destroyers, and often of low mentality, meally minded and obsessed with their betters...their superiors. these types are best ignored, as they are parasites, almost sociopathic, wanting to drain the energy of others who are very able.
amanda, in her own, very limited way, is actually working to improve your posting style and she acts from her jealousy, and that you ignored her in your suicide thread (causing her feewings to be alll hoited) , but she thinks she is being important, and granted, the more we give the struggling woman the attention she craves to make her small world, the more she will simply puff up with importance. mores the pity, since she can only gain some sense of importance by trying to drag her betters down.
her pitiful attempts for attention, lacking intellectual ability, even extends to her having posted a pic of herself as an avatar in her bikini. and then bragging about it. tragic. really tragic.
i am unconcerned if her or her ilk doubt my or your credibility. the reality of my-and your-life do not hinge on her ankle biting, obsession that we all prove what she cannot believe. if she pines to fill her day and threads with negativity, then power to her. i will do as i have, and that is to ignore her. i dislike ignoring posters, but she has absolutely no content to bring. let her pant and whine about credibility. for her and those like her to doubt my credibility or yours we should wear as a badge of honor. apple trees are known by their fruit, as has been said long ago. her fruits are thread derailment, negativity, and sad attempts to insult her betters.
back on thread, have you read richard h's post?