Nope, what I'm saying is that gay men are only shocked that people are finding out about their closeted behaviors: not that they deny they exist as routine. And, since they are behaviors, what are the closeted-costs of assigning these behaviors "marriage rights"? Like adoption...
All gays or just the ones in your imagination? I'm looking for a percentage for your claim. Just how many gays would you say are drug addicts who only live to corrupt our kids?
From the article:
Where once it existed in the subculture of gay excess, chemsex is now experiencing the glare of mainstream media attention...
What we need to quantify here is "gay excess". Is it excessive in behavior to just use the anus as an artificial vagina? Do most gay men draw the line there? Anything more would be "too kinky" for them? (look at the photos in the OP to help you deliberate).
Or, is it as the article suggests, a "given" that gay men are by their natures "excessive sexual beings" and that they're bummed one of their closeted excesses is being exposed so shortly after they illegally captured "gay marriage rights"?
That's what this thread is trying to provoke in readers.. "What is "gay excess" and should we presume it is in a minority in the gay male population? What evidence do we have to deduce that one way or the other?"