Oh, but he was. And you would agree, were it a woman you cared about.
But barring that, defending Dear Leader comes first.
And what he did meets the definition of rape in most States. And after The State of New York saw Trump slither through another blind spot in the law, they updated their laws to consider what Trump did to be rape.
So I'm going to go with rape. Just like the judge.
But you go find victims of finger rape and soothe them by telling them, "At least it wasn't rape!" Then mop up what is left of your morals and ethics.