untrue most black lmen 80% do not stay at home to raise their chillen !!
Men don't have to stay at home to raise their children dick breath.
I don't think stay at home means laying on the sofa popping bonbons into one's mouth. It means be an active participant in the family household. Many black men don't even pay much attention that they have fathered children much less who the mothers are. Not that the little white boys are much better. The difference is, a black guy assumes that the responsibility for his child is belongs to some government office someplace and the white guy is going to take it personally. It's UNFAIR that he got his girlfriend pregnant. She did it because she doesn't care about him. It's not his fault he is a victim and should be compensated by someone, someplace.
This is new. 15-20 years ago when I was doing custody and support cases, when a black man walked into my office I knew he was going to be on my ass on a daily basis to do right by his kids. Of all fathers, it was the black guy who was going to be the most active, the most interested, the most caring. They would go to the mat, fight tooth and nail. The white men were always respondents, they never initiated anything, they only tried to wiggle out.
Then it changed. I don't know when it changed, but it changed. Now men, white or black, just don't care about their children very much. I believe that government intervention just beat everyone down. The government has largely replaced men as the family provider, guardian and disciplinarian. It may be not so much that they don't care, it's that there is little left for them to care about.
Asian families are still different, still mostly intact with little divorce and less out of wedlock births. I expect the government will beat them up too, eventually.
Look at what your own Dad is like, was like when you were growing up. How many of your friends are fathers are like him? I hope you have some who step up to the plate.
We will probably end up like great swaths of Europe where children stay with mothers. The primary provider is the government, and the men transition from woman to women, family to family, taking on whatever children there are so long as it suits them to stay.