Back then I'd be like WHEW I'm so glad she got the abortion and it would have ruined my life.When I was 21 I did get a girl pregnant. In a hush-hush mode she was sent for an abortion by a friend of ours. I found out about it after the fact. I was largely unfazed by it.
I reflect on it to this day. I am not against abortion within limits, still, it haunts me today whereas it did not at the time.
That's life I suppose.
And it depends. Am I going to be a part of the kids life? Is she going to raise him to be a piece of shit? Is another man going to be raising my kid? GROSS! So even today, I don't think I'd be too sad that I had a kid but aborted it.
But of course any human would wonder what that kid would have been like, what would it have become? Boy or girl?
