Yeah, it's all about you: "I was legitimately disgusted." Legitimately, no less.
Mollie's father said, the Hispanics are Iowans, with better food. That's "passive aggressive jokes at the expense of white people." You are just a whiny crybaby.
Her father saw her life, which was brutally ended. He legitimately refuses to let her, and her life, be redefined by that end. Hence he legitimately concludes, she is not a victim. Much to you chagrin, because you are a whiny crybaby.
And, of course, "You...'people' don't have any right to judge me," because that brings out even more the whiny crybaby. And it's still all about you, and about how you feel absolutely feel free to render judgment, about the family that experienced a catastrophic loss, burying her daughter / sister.
Let me tell you this, in your infantile egocentrism, your endless grievance over a good word about Hispanics, and your instrumentalizing Mollie's death, you are not disgusted, you are disgusting.