How is being falsely accused of rape ever worse than being literally raped. Explain that.
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Women who are victims of rape or even allegedly victims are typically treated with great compassion by others and that is how a decent person should treat them.
They typically receive empathy and support from family, friends, coworkers, their church if they have one, their community and neighbors.
Law enforcement and the courts do everything they can to help and to establish justice.
There are hundreds of shelters Nationwide for battered and abused women who will take them in. They have RAINN and other organizations offering free counseling and other assistance to them.
Usually their identity is kept out of the public.
No one with any decency opposes any of this and in fact supports such help for victims.
In addition it is true that every woman is different and some recover more fully than others. Some never do and may even commit suicide. Most eventually do recover to lead good lives even if carrying emotional mental and physical scars.
Men who are falsely accused are more likely to lose the support of friends, family, the community and neighbors. If they belong to a church they might well lose that support. They are more likely to lose their jobs and homes and families especially their kids. Forever if convicted.
Their name is very likely to be smeared and trashed forever even of acquitted. Unlike a victim their name is published before trial and many assume they are guilty. If acquitted it is often in the back of the paper somewhere. There are no specific shelters for them and few legal resources available unless they are wealthy or have a public defender.
With their reputation and name wrecked much of this damage can be permanent and irreparable.
If convicted they might be raped in prison suffering what their accuser lied about. If their attacker is HIV positive it is a death sentence.
No one especially me is trivializing what victims suffer. The point is that there is more than one kind of victim and saying one CAN suffer more than others is true. No one said it is always worse.
It needs to be remembered because many on the left seek to marginalize due process for rape or sexual assault. Such as Obama with his title IX witch hunt.
I know rape victims and always support and empathize with them
I also support and empathize with Daniel Holtclaw who has suffered much of what I described above.