I don't think anyone is trivializing slavery. What the problem is, is many blacks use "slavery days" as an excuse for bad behavior and expect some kind of compensation.
In my whole entire life, I have never heard of anyone trying to excuse bad behavior because his forefathers were slaves. EVER. I have heard people point to modern day racism as a factor in their decisions, and sometimes I thought they made a good point -- other times, no. I have heard people -- of all colors -- discuss reparations for the profits made off slave labor, and I agreed with some (but not all) such proposals.
What many of us are saying is it was not just blacks that experienced difficulty in being a minority or just being the race/religion (jews) they were.
While I agree, IMO no group other than Native Americans suffered in the US as blacks did.
So there is a NAACP and Black History Month, Miss Black America, blah blah blah.
But if there were a NAAWP or a NAAAP or a NAAIP or a NAANAP...a Miss Irish, Miss Italian, Miss Asian, Miss Tribe...shit would hit the fan and anyone with white toned skin would be called racist.
Come again? What is this persistent gripe that no one who is not black can gather together or celebrate their heritage without being called racists?
So yeah..celebrate your heritage and culture. But let everyone else do the same without one particular peoples being the "victims".
Sorry, no can do. If we all celebrate our history mine just is not as tragic as my black friends, and pretending it is isn't going to advance anyone's interests.
And THAT'S where the problem lays...in my humble opinion.
btw...to try to address the OP with a scenario.....California used to belong to Mexico. Cinco De Mayo is celebrated here. I don't ever recall seeing people getting in front of a microphone or on youtube or on tv berating how the government stole California. All there is is singing and dancing, joy and merriment. Regardless of the stuff going on in Arizona, mind you. Its a time for celebration. Great! It's a fun time! So those who continually use the race card on any given chance/day/month/year over something that happened long ago is what pisses a few off so they don't see the positive things blacks represent. All they see is the same old tired "you owe us because you enslaved us" crap.
The practice of slavery only ended in this country about 160 years ago. When I was a kid, there were families around who could trace themselves back enough generations to actually know "great-great-great grandma and grandpa" were slaves. Why should this matter less than the people who can tell you they have a Civil War or Revolutionary War solider in their families? Slavery isn't some obscure event that happened in the midsts of time....it is much more personal and immediate to many people.
But leave that aside. I myself recall the March On Selma. The Jim Crow laws, the Summer Of Freedom, the Voting Rights Act, the Civil Rights Act. I'm not black and I'm not southern, but these were watershed events in my life. Asking me to forget about them or treat them as ancient history makes as much sense as asking me to forget the Vietnam War or the Sexual Revolution. If these events had never happened, the world I live in just would not be the same place....they helped to define the country.
I'm sorry the recollection and teaching of this history offends you -- I know many whites feel unnecessary guilt about what took place, forgetting the millions of whites who fought hard on the side of freedom.
Sorry if that came out wrong. Sometimes I can express my thoughts pretty well. Sometimes, I'm like a bull in a china shop and I don't mean to shatter the figurines.