
Okay Valerie, whom I like and respect very much, has outed herself which I was not going to do.

It was indeed our exchange on that thread that got me to thinking about all of this and pondering whether I in fact did owe her a public apology.
I do apologize to Valerie for making an argument apparently so clumsily that it appeared to you and others than I was accusing you of lying. That was not my intent at all.
But I gently reject any conclusion that I have EVER demanded or expected anybody to agree with me at USMB. I have not.
I did accuse you of intellectual dishonesty when you refused to consider my argument as anything other than advocacy for torture which it was not. And, in my mind, that was NOT accusing you of lying but rather of stubbornly holding your position and refusing to consider any mitigating factors that would require softening that position.
I do try very hard not to lie these days.
I have been guilty of intellectual dishonesty in advocacy at times however. I would like to say I have acknowledged it when it has happened, but if I am intellectually honest, I don't know that I have in every single instance.
I don't see myself as a bad person.
And I sure don't see Valerie as a bad person.
NOTE to EVERYBODY: I do NOT want to and will not reargue the thesis of that other thread here. Let's keep that over there and discuss intellectual dishonesty here please.
If you want to know the truth, I think you were the one being intellectually dishonest in that thread and I was just trying to be gracious about it...
The OP article was an absolute repudiation of torture. You posted several posts before del stepped in and said
umm maybe you should read the article and then you admitted that you hadn't even bothered. Then you repeatedly said you did not support a policy of torture yet intellectual honesty requires that we consider that sometimes it may be necessary...
I told you I had considered all that and demonstrated the reasons why I still agree with an absolute repudiation policy. You then repeated at least a dozen times a reference to a movie where a Secret Service agent shot off a toe which you felt illustrated your point that sometimes torture may be necessary, and that understanding such required intellectual honesty...
I had never heard of the movie, but after seeing you mention it a few times and repeatedly claiming that no one had the courage to even address it, I asked you what you were referring to so that I could answer you. When I came back to the thread a few hours later I saw you claiming for the third or fourth time how no one had the courage to answer the big question about the toe. I seriously could not even believe my eyes at that point, and yet again I tried to be gracious about it...
Anther poster clued me in to the plot of the movie and I answered directly to your point a couple of times and still you proceeded yet AGAIN to reply to me with a claim that no one even considered your point with any intellectual honesty... Fact is, you repeated that over and over and over again about the toe and how intellectual honesty required seeing it your way... All the while not once ever acknowledging an understanding of what absolute repudiation means. Your repeated assertion was essentially that those who support absolute repudiation of torture must be intellectually dishonest...
I really didn't want to make a big deal about it because I don't think you were being malicious just maybe a bit confused... And I loathe to take threads personally.
Now this thread feels a bit like adding insult to injury, as I'm sure many people have no idea who posted what in that thread and won't bother to look... Now you chose to leave that thread and start this one where folks who don't know may actually think I was somehow being dishonest when I absolutely was not AT ALL.
And really, I was completely done with the thread 'til the next afternoon I saw you make a post a list of "unpleasantries" boldly and disingenuously asking if people considered them torture, after we had ALREADY established the day before that NO ONE posted anything about not wanting terrorists to experience "unpleasantries" as you repeatedly put it...
http://www.usmessageboard.com/polit...ves-view-on-waterboarding-40.html#post3647146
In the end, I reiterated that the problem is not that we disagreed, and I never said you were wrong to have your opinion, but that your points did not change my opinion and that to continue to say intellectual honesty requires that we see the story with the toe as an illustration that sometimes torture is necessary, was insulting everyone who agreed with the OP...
I think you probably believe you are not even doing it and I believe you when you say that is not your intent, but someone had to let you know dear, the words are right there on the page for all to see... I appreciate the apology and the rep and everything but please reconsider your own intellectual honesty...