Let me try and explain this to your dumb ass for the 50 millionth time...
There are so many doctors in America and so many hours in a day. This is a limitation on the amount of actual health care that can be dispensed. Unless we train more doctors or find some way to increase the number of hours in a day, there isn't much we can do to increase the amount of healthcare available.
With the current parameters, we simply don't have enough healthcare available to provide it all-inclusively to 350 million people. It doesn't matter who is paying for it.... doesn't matter what kind of healthcare bill you pass... doesn't matter how many heart-wrenching stories you put out... that's a fact of life that has to be accepted.
So we have a finite amount of healthcare available and we must figure out how to disperse it among the 350 million citizens who require it. There are basically two ways you can do this. One way is through a free market capitalist approach where supply and demand determines price and consumers make voluntary choices on how much, if any, they wish to purchase. The other way is through a Socialist government-run approach where a central authority makes the decisions on who gets what.
In neither case can we provide soup-to-nuts, cradle-to-grave healthcare for 350 million people and ensure that everyone has all the healthcare their hearts desire. That's impossible. That only happens in a fantasy universe. With either option, there are going to be (obviously) people who are not able to obtain healthcare.
Here is the difference... In a free market approach, people who have the means of paying for healthcare are taken care of and through benevolence and philanthropy, many who can't afford health care are also taken care of. Emergency care can be provided to virtually everyone regardless of ability to pay. On the other hand, a government-run healthcare system is forced to ration healthcare services regardless of your ability to pay or the urgency of your specific need at any given time. You'll get what you get when the government says it's okay.
In both cases... and this is crucial to remember... some people are going to get sick and die. There is no healthcare plan or system known to mankind that prevents this. To live in a dream world where this is possible is foolish and childish.