For a child to have the right kind of care requires the presence of both parents. Being born into a emotionally starved environment is as destructive as being born in an environment without groceries. In both environments, the kid will be raised stunted.
At some point adding cash does not add to the welfare of the kids. Dollars are not love, discipline, respect, or care. They can't replace what is not there.
She is bringing the kid up lacking something important. She has a lot of the needful, but has a total lack of what is necessary.
So you think Portman should give her child up for adoption as opposed to keep it and raise it herself simply because she doesn't want to marry the father.
What a bunch of moralistic bullshit.
Women are nothing but incubators in your view.
If she didn't want to have the dad in her life, then why did she make the baby with him? Ad kid is not a job you just pass off to someone else. The kid has needs and before you make the kid, you make sure the needs are met. Portman seems to have the idea (I don't know anything, I admit) that a kid is just a neat cool accessory. Just get a sperm donor and make sure the hair matches your wardrobe.
I am saying if yo want a kid, you should want it for the right reasons and make sure it has all the emotional support it needs.
Please don't feed words into my mouth I don't say.
I did say she should make the commitment first, the guy should make the commitment first, and then make the baby afterwards. Kids are a forever kind of deal. Either be able to deal with forever, or wear a condom, or better yet find someone who you can do forever with.
Don't have fun for yourself where the result is hurt for another.