Esmeralda
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Agree. It is similar to xenophobia. Saying homophobia doesn't exist is tantamount to saying xenophobia doesn't exist. Xenophobia is defined as "Xenophobia is the dislike of that which is perceived to be foreign or strange." That is exactly what homophobia is: dislike of something that is foreign or strange to you. You don't have to agree with homosexuality; you don't have to be involved or participate. You can just live and let live, but to be so involved in hating it and being angry about it is a phobia. People say it is a sin and that is why they don't accept it, but as I have pointed out, adultery is also a sin and people don't have a problem with that.Do I believe biggotry, racism and white supremacists are normal?
I dislike the term "normal," as many equate it incorrectly to "right." Standards and norms change as humanity changes. Biggotry and racism are certainly common enough to be considered normal by some definitions. They appear to be naturally occurring as far as I can tell. White supremacy ... I wouldn't think so.
If you mean do I think they are right, my answer changes to, "No."
I do not believe hatred to be mentally healthy. My issue here is the incorrect and inflammatory use of "phobia" and "dysfunction" applied to one side and not the other. If anger and hostility are dysfunctions in heterosexuals, then they are dysfunctions in homosexuals. Do you agree?
Do you see that incorrectly diagnosing someone with a phobia would grant the phobic protections that should not apply. Disagreeing with homosexuality is not an insanity. People who disagree with homosexuality are in control of their actions (barring actual insanities) whereas a phobic is not.
Anger and hatred are only some of the symptoms of the irrational fear, or dysfunction, if you prefer.
You cannot deny that hatred of gays is any different to hatred of other races, religions, nationalities, etc.
That hatred is not based upon anything rational or reasonable. Instead is is based upon irrational fear!
People display irrational anger and hatred towards that which they fear. (e.g Muslims, gays, blacks, etc.)
Therefore if there is no sound rational basis for engaging in irrational hatred and anger that is dysfunctional and since it against a specific class of persons that means that it fits the definition of a phobia.
the definition of phobia
phobia
noun
1.
a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object,activity, or situation that leads to a compellingdesire to avoid it.
Synonyms
aversion, hatred.
-phobia
1.
a combining form meaning “fear,” occurring inloanwords from Greek ( hydrophobia); on thismodel, used in the names of mental disorders thathave the general sense “dread of, aversiontoward” that specified by the initial element:
agoraphobia.
In essence phobia means an irrational fear of something and it is common practice to prefix the fear with the cause as per the example above.
Now unless you can prove that the symptoms of anger and hatred towards gays are based upon anything other than irrational fears the term homophobia is an accurate description of what they are exhibiting with their behavior.
In fact, the fellow who was upset because some decades ago, homosexuality was not accepted and now it is, this fellow needs to be reminded that nearly the same amount of decades ago divorce was not acceptable and now it certainly is. In the early part of the 20th century, divorce was scandalous. Divorced women in particular were scorned and considered almost whores. We can also talk about the fact women were not allowed to vote until the 20s. And in the 1800s women were not accepted to universities.
Times change. We evolve as a society. It is happening all over the world. The study in the OP was done in Italy, a traditionally very religious country. They are changing and evolving too.
It does seem as though, if some people had their way, we would still be stuck in the Dark Ages.
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