basquebromance
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i have a lot to say about this!
Like a special snowflake closet?Boys need their own spaces. They can't be expected to include girls in everything. Adding a girl into a group of boys changes the dynamic dramatically. She will never be "one of the guys," despite what she thinks. She cannot relate to them in the same way, or understand them
When a girl is introduced, everything becomes about the girl. The boys will change their behavior, their language, tone things down for her sake, and there will be the added pressure to impress her. That's why boys need space apart, just for themselves, to really be boys.
So is this about no exclusively men's clubs anymore?Boys need their own spaces. They can't be expected to include girls in everything. Adding a girl into a group of boys changes the dynamic dramatically. She will never be "one of the guys," despite what she thinks. She cannot relate to them in the same way, or understand them
When a girl is introduced, everything becomes about the girl. The boys will change their behavior, their language, tone things down for her sake, and there will be the added pressure to impress her. That's why boys need space apart, just for themselves, to really be boys.
AKA solitary confinement.The lack of male spaces in our culture begins in the home, where a man is often forced to set up his "man cave" in the garage or the basement if he wants any space to himself in the home he owns and pays for.
Boys need their own spaces. They can't be expected to include girls in everything. Adding a girl into a group of boys changes the dynamic dramatically. She will never be "one of the guys," despite what she thinks. She cannot relate to them in the same way, or understand them
When a girl is introduced, everything becomes about the girl. The boys will change their behavior, their language, tone things down for her sake, and there will be the added pressure to impress her. That's why boys need space apart, just for themselves, to really be boys.