Go ahead and shrivel up your nuts and take orders from your squeeze....who cares? Women aren't attracted to 410 dopes because they know they'll end up having to support them. I've seen it all....my brother won't listen to new music unless he's stoned.....now he's in his late 70's and became a wino in his 50's....gateway drug...What do you mopes think "stoned" means...being alert with normal reflexes? Is "wow man" and "like...." and leaping out off a couch muttering "did you hear that" normal phrases used in normal conversation? No. It's a drug that makes you stupid...some folks like that so much they stay stupid for years and then can't find their way back.